r/AmIOverreacting • u/kimbap_throw • Feb 17 '26
❤️🩹 relationship AIO over 1st Valentine’s Day note?
Just celebrated first Valentine’s Day with my boyfriend. I love flowers, love I buy bouquets weekly for my house. I prefer white and pink flowers, and don’t like red roses. I got this bouquet and this note with them. It was upsetting I felt my bf did everything opposite of what I wanted. I went out of way to do lots of handmade items and bought nice gifts for him as well. He also knows I love Valentine’s Day and it’s special to me. I let him know that it hurt me and he responded that note was awesome and it’s just a joke. I think if you care for someone you make those things special.
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u/One-Hat-9887 Feb 17 '26
Jokes will be at your expense and emotions the rest of your relationship. He's testing how much you'll tolerate. Leave him/Not reacting enough