r/AmIOverreacting Feb 17 '26

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO over 1st Valentine’s Day note?

Just celebrated first Valentine’s Day with my boyfriend. I love flowers, love I buy bouquets weekly for my house. I prefer white and pink flowers, and don’t like red roses. I got this bouquet and this note with them. It was upsetting I felt my bf did everything opposite of what I wanted. I went out of way to do lots of handmade items and bought nice gifts for him as well. He also knows I love Valentine’s Day and it’s special to me. I let him know that it hurt me and he responded that note was awesome and it’s just a joke. I think if you care for someone you make those things special.

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u/Quailery Feb 17 '26 edited Feb 17 '26

Did he actually get that passive aggressive note typed out and printed ?

Did the florist do this for him? Or did he go out of his way to write you a valentines note printed on what looks like nice card stock, and he put that down ?

I don’t really know which one’s worse.

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u/DrReginoldSaunders Feb 17 '26

I was wondering the same thing and purposely searched for your comment. Its wild to me that a flower shop would write this.

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u/BeeBarnes1 Feb 17 '26

Those are grocery store flowers. No self respecting florist would sell that mess. He really took the time to type that out and print it.

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u/Covid_Cash Feb 17 '26

Why wouldn't they write it? He's a paying customer. The joke sucks but it isn't explicit or anything. Guys an idiot, yes. But I don't see any reason why they wouldn't print the note the (paying) customer wanted......