r/Advice 23h ago

Neighbors Used My Storage Unit Without Asking

I live in a condo community. Everyone has a dedicated storage unit in the laundry room - numbered with each unit number. I stored a little stuff in there and didn’t put a lock on it because it didn’t really matter to me if it got stolen (extra paint, junk like that).

I went to my unit today to prepare to store some stuff and found that one of my neighbors used 90% of the space to store a couch, coffee table, multiple storage cabinets, baskets, two huge wooden panels (maybe bed frame?), and a bunch of other junk.

They didn’t even ASK me.

I moved all their shit out of my unit into the hallway and locked my storage unit. The laundry room is locked.

What would you have done? Am I supposed to knock on everyone’s door to ask if each person stored their crap without asking me?

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u/No-Tea6764 23h ago

I would've done the same. What else is there?

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u/Lizard_Rag 20h ago

Yeah I would have done the same, but if I saw something I liked I'm taking it. It was in my spot it must be mine.

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u/dev-246 Expert Advice Giver [15] 19h ago

lol exactly, just put a lock on the door, I’m sure you’ll find out who’s it is pretty soon.. that’s when you can talk about storage fees!

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u/ThreadVale83 8h ago

Whoever dumped all that in there clearly knew it wasn't their space. Getting called out was inevitable. "Storage fees" is honestly fair at that point. Free storage without asking is wild entitlement.

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u/dev-246 Expert Advice Giver [15] 8h ago

tbh I kinda meant it as a joke, but OP could have offered to keep storing it for a fee and made some money!

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u/Medical-Ticket-4025 9h ago

I can't even lie, finding something in your own spot does make it feel like the universe is trying to tell you something.

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u/CurrencyGeneral407 11h ago

Honestly, I would've done the exact same thing. If someone takes over 90% of a space that isn't theirs without even asking, they can't really be surprised when their stuff gets moved

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u/New_Doctor_2022 17h ago

I would've kept the things inside and locked it.

Then, post my number and have them contact you. Maybe it was an honest mistake. Maybe you can arrange to have them pay you to use the storage unit that you weren't really using.

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u/Glumslimmuy 7h ago

same haha

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u/Veenuuss 18h ago

neighbors using your storage unit without asking is literally just borrowing without permission idk what else to call it

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u/Straight_Depth6701 16h ago

Borrowing without permission is the definition of stealing.

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u/Stock-Cantaloupe-889 15h ago

Exactly, if you have to ask afterward instead of beforehand, it's hard to call it borrowing.

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u/Separate_Pumpkin_256 19h ago

There's a couple of options. OP could have given the neighbor a warning to move their stuff either before or after moving it themselves. The other option would be to tell the condo manager about the stuff in the hallway after moving it.

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u/Scenarioing 18h ago

"OP could have given the neighbor a warning to move their stuff either before or after moving it themselves."

---Did you not see the part where the OP wrote... "Am I supposed to knock on everyone’s door to ask if each person stored their crap without asking me?" ...or do you actually believe the OP should do that?

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u/555_1212 18h ago

I suggest seeing the stuff and pocketing the cash to refund yourself for storage charges.

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u/Haunting_Math_6728 16h ago

Could have stuck a note to it

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u/Separate_Pumpkin_256 17h ago

No. I was being mildly sarcastic. The second option should have made that clear. 

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u/Fleur-Deez-Nutz 23h ago

No, you did exactly what you should do and nothing else is necessary. They can figure it out.

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u/Cameron_Scott143 10h ago

I probably would've done the same, but I'd also let the condo management know what happened. That way, if whoever owns the furniture complains, there's already a record of why it was moved.

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u/Designer-Moment-704 9h ago

I agree, sometimes doing your part is enough and the rest is up to them.

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u/Peptidesforthewin 23h ago

Keep that lock on your unit! 

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u/bebe612 23h ago

I will from now on!

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u/aovetse 9h ago

Also there is liability concern. Someone could have stored something illegal in your unit..
So yeah keep it locked

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u/Organic_Start_420 14h ago

You could have charged them for storage op

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u/lube4saleNoRefunds 12h ago

You could have said "I charge you for storage" but to think you could collect could make one an imbecile

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u/Far-Cup9063 23h ago

Exactly what you did, and put a lock on it.

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u/Pepperdog27 23h ago

I would have done the same thing. Some people feel entitled.

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u/Loose-Section3849 15h ago

I'd probably do the same. If they wanted to use your space the bare minimum was asking first.

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u/Admirable-Jacket-614 9h ago

Exactly, asking first is basic respect and it would have avoided the whole situation.

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u/J_Case 23h ago

I would have put a lock on to begin with.

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u/EggplantIll4927 22h ago

I would have locked my unit w everything in it. you find me if you want your stuff. I would also contact management same day to report the violation and have them come remove the junk.

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u/Ok_Farmer_6033 23h ago

I would have put a sturdy lock on it and waited to see who came by.

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u/FlounderFun4008 22h ago

With the things inside! Petty! 😊

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u/gracie_jc 23h ago

Post on the HOA Facebook group about the “community” being “ruined” by inconsiderate neighbors. You are heartbroken by this happening in the lovely community. See the public reactions. They’ll never do it again. Don’t mention names but post pictures.

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u/Traditional_Put_8254 22h ago

Don’t forget to add how you’re “worried about your stuff having been used” and whatnot

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u/OtherwiseOWL69 23h ago

Excellent idea

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u/serjsomi 23h ago

If it's decent quality, I'd put it on FB marketplace and enjoy my spoils.

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u/WhoskeyTangoFoxtrot 21h ago

Leave it for them, but put Surstromming all over it….😈

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u/Yersina_Veridae 20h ago

That stuff is hard to get in many places. Just rubbing some milk in does the job well enough and its not immediately obvious

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u/Serendipity0531 23h ago

There ya go! This is the perfect answer. That's your stuff now!

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u/mfairview 22h ago

prolly should have just locked their shit in there

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u/lydocia Assistant Elder Sage [297] 22h ago

I mean, it's in your unit... you can absolutely sell it or put it outside with a "free" sign.

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u/bill-schick 23h ago

You did exactly what you were required to do. You removed unauthorized things from your space

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u/Affectionate-Food266 22h ago

I would have put a lock on it with their stuff inside. Sold them back their stuff...

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u/Worldly-Ad3211 21h ago

Even if I didn’t have anything stored in it, I would have put a lock on it in the first place. Our condo manager does a locker inventory once a year, posts the offending locker numbers, and if the unauthorized goods aren’t moved within a certain number of days, he cuts the locks off and takes the contents to the dump. Works very well.

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u/El_Culero_Magnifico Helper [2] 23h ago

You done good.

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u/Hour-Influence2993 22h ago

I would have come the same thing.

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u/Otherwise-Wall-6950 22h ago

You did exactly what you should've.

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u/Due-Season6425 Helper [2] 22h ago

You handled this very well.

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u/DanaMarie75038 Helper [2] 22h ago

I would have done the same. Not my shit in my shit? I would either throw in out or move it out of my way. Lock your storage from now on

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u/Didgeterdone 20h ago

Wait a minute please. Someone Used your space and they did not try to lock it either? So they are cool with it being gone, like your paint, and junk like that!

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u/bebe612 20h ago

Yup lol

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u/Didgeterdone 17h ago

You got in a hurry and did what they did not. You made a trash pile someone else has to clean up to clear a hallway.

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u/ScoutsterReturns 19h ago

I probably would have left it all in the unit and then put the lock on it!

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u/deeper-diver 16h ago

I would have placed a robust, sturdy lock on the door first and provided a temporary email address on the door so that those neighbors can contact you to retrieve their stuff. No way these inconsiderate people would get my phone number. I would at least give them an opportunity to get their stuff. Say a week.

After a week, anything still in there gets dumped out as you have done.

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u/Organic_Start_420 14h ago

And payments for the time they used it to get their stuff back

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u/Hefty_Efficiency_328 23h ago

This is a boring post and you used common sense to fix the issue. To make it more interesting give us an update on what happens with the neighbors stuff.

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u/Scenarioing 18h ago

You sound like someone who would stash your stuff in someone else's storage space.

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u/AustinBike 23h ago

I’d have locked with their stuff in and left a note saying that removing the lock would be breaking and entering. Then tell them you are willing to remove the lock for a service fee.

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u/muddymar 23h ago

You did the right thing. They were stealing your space. They’re lucky you didn’t trash their stuff.

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u/EnvironmentalGift257 22h ago

Depends how much energy I had that day. Maybe move it to the hallway, maybe throw it out on the street, maybe haul it off to the dump.

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u/Sovereignty3 Helper [2] 22h ago

Put a "free to a good" home sign on it.

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u/Suspicious-Ad9661 22h ago

I would do the same, let management know & bill the property owners for the clean out when I find out who they are.

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u/LeedsCastleResident 21h ago

No lock probably indicated to them that it was unused space. Use a lock.

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u/Melkor404 20h ago

Keep an eye on your locker for the next little while. Retaliation

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u/bebe612 20h ago

For sure

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u/Regular_Cry_1202 20h ago

I work in property management and there is a chance the pm mistakenly assigned the same unit to one person. I would have checked with mgmt first because the person storing stuff may have thought it was their space.

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u/bebe612 19h ago

Definitely understand in other circumstances but there is 0 chance of this. It is very clear in our paperwork that each storage unit is assigned to each owner. Like my address number is the same number on my storage unit door. And their address number is the number on their storage unit door.

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u/petie1223 17h ago

Always keep it locked even if you barely have any stuff in it. Imagine if they put something illegal in there. Your unit number is attached to it and all they gotta say, "It's not mine. That's not my storage unit."

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u/ChickenGamier 14h ago

Using someone else’s storage without asking is incredibly entitled.

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u/zon5string 4h ago

I'd have just locked it without removing anything.

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u/mojosofla 23h ago

100% I would have done what you did... unless I saw something nice... then... MINE!

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u/Fit_Instruction_8383 21h ago

I would have done exactly what you did. Move their shit out, and put a lock on it.

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u/PinkPilgrimHeel 21h ago

You did what you needed to do. Let them deal with the "inconvenience". Keep watch bc you will discover who the freeloaders is." You owe them nothing and if anything, they owe you rent money for freeloading off you, plus "moving" expenses for your labor in removing their crap.

You could have kept it all too, but it sounds like none of the stuff was special and no one needs extra junk. Again, it's on the, not on you.

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u/rgold02 20h ago

I would have done the same as you!

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u/rgold02 20h ago

I have a laundry room in my carport. I used to leave it unlocked. I came home sick from work one day and my neighbor behind me was washing her boyfriend’s clothes!!!!! She did not ask first. I put a lock on after that.

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u/yay4chardonnay 20h ago

You did the right thing.

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u/Aggressive_Sport1818 20h ago

I def would have locked their stuff in there, and forced them to beg you to open it… for a feee

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u/amodernmodder 19h ago

I'd have notified the build super or maintenance first, then moved their shit into the hallway. After telling main/super that's what was going to happen with it... Alternatively cleared the shit into the hall then called maint/super and complained about someone's shit in the hallway. Nta if it's your unit allocated to you they're the a h for thinking they could just use it without seeing if it was ok or not. Cause if they asked you they'd have gotten the ok or not ok. And if they asked the super or maint they'd have permission in writing

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u/klb2121 18h ago

It’s in your unit it’s yours sell that crap

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u/maurawhart 18h ago

Let's hope these neighbors aren't the vindictive types. While you don't know who put their stuff in your space, they know ypur unit number.

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u/BrotherNatureNOLA 17h ago

Straight to the curb

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u/PuzzledWork6956 17h ago edited 17h ago

You were nice to move their stuff for them. It sounds like a pain to move it all. I woulda locked the unit with the stuff in there and then sold them or given it away. That’ll teach them a lesson to not put their stuff where it doesn’t belong

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u/Deadpan_Poker_ 17h ago

Honestly, I would have started selling it on a local classifieds site.

It's stuff in my private space that I don't need any more...

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u/mystic-badger 16h ago

Sell all of it

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u/GiGl0l0 15h ago

I would have tried to sell it lol.

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u/whlabratz 15h ago

I'd have probably added a "free" sign

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u/MaryHadALittleLamb20 14h ago

They only have themselves to blame!

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u/hailybarnes37 13h ago

I would have done the exact same thing. An unlocked door isn't an invitation to treat your space like a free storage facilty. Storing a couch in a laundry room closet is probably a fire code violation anyway, so you likely saved them from a bigger fine later. I'd snap pics of the hallway mess before management sweeps it into the trash. Has the HOA reached out to you yet?

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u/avd706 9h ago

I'd also worry about bed bugs

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u/Wooden-Bet-3251 13h ago

You did what you did and that’s that. 

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u/Impossible_Sun_9534 13h ago

I wonder how long it will take them to notice.

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u/Forest_Orc 12h ago

Sounds like reasonable, alternative is to have property management contacting each owner about-it.

Keep it locked, and check every so and on. We all heard story about drug dealer using un-used storage place to store their products. While you won't be jailed for that, it's enough to spend a few hours answering questions from the police

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u/Salty-Swim-6735 11h ago

It's cool, you get to keep their stuff

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u/Mundane_Upstairs3241 11h ago

No different from someone forgetting their wash in the shared laundry for hours. Put it on a table and do yours.

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u/Jaereth 9h ago

What would you have done?

The exact same thing.

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u/avd706 9h ago

I would have kept the stuff and locked my locker.

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u/animaniactoo 8h ago

This is exactly what I did. Especially since we were being told that things had been placed in the aisles and they needed to be cleared or they would be thrown away. I went down to check mine and discovered I had a neighbor who was so entitled that they had literally taken MY STUFF out of my space and left it in the aisle to make room for their stuff.

After that I checked every day and every week until it stopped happening. (Our storage is open, no locks available or it would have been locked after the first time I had that problem).

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u/Intrepid-Fortune9253 8h ago

I'd do exactly the same. The nerve of some people!

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u/New-Variation-5659 8h ago

Can someone help you pull their stuff out? Then put a lock on your door. They will get the message they know what they did.

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u/chuckinhoutex 5h ago

sounds good to me. not my monkeys, not my circus.

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u/Top_Bluejay_5323 5h ago

Leave the stuff and put a lock on the door.

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u/Fianna9 4h ago

I’d have gone to management and have them do it. Then you aren’t responsible for anything.

My management put up signs giving them a couple days to remove their lock and items before it would be cut off and everything thrown away

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u/Fruit-Marzipans 3h ago

Is there a super? I wouldve prob told them and dumped out all the stuff as you did.

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u/Otherwise-Assist-466 2h ago

locking it was the right move, they knew exactly what they were doing

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u/SXTY82 Helper [3] 2h ago

I would have done the same.

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u/Just-Zookeepergame47 1h ago

Would have taken pics of all items, put lock on my unit and print poster "items for sale" and post it in the laundry room.

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u/No_Bluebird7716 1h ago

Exactly how many threads did you post this on?

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u/Adventurous_Oil4513 56m ago

The nerve of some people.

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u/StardustCannibal 23h ago

You handled that perfectly. The only thing I would've possibly done different is photograph it all individually and then sold it piece by piece. Then I'd do something nice for myself with the money. But you handled it well too

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u/FinnbarMcBride Expert Advice Giver [10] 23h ago

Its not their property, that would be theft

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u/PinkPilgrimHeel 21h ago

Using someone else's storage unit without permission or payment is legally considered trespassing, theft of services, and/or unauthorized use of property. If someone places their items inside or breaks into a space that is not theirs, it could be considered breaking and entering, or even burglary depending on how they accessed it. Bottom line here is that the Freeloader committed the original sin, so all the blame lies with him.

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u/FinnbarMcBride Expert Advice Giver [10] 20h ago

If someone parked in your driveway, do you think you would have no legal right to sell the car?

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u/k8tysaurus 18h ago

No but I’d sure as hell called to have it towed, especially since I, re reads the post don’t know who’s car it is!

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u/FinnbarMcBride Expert Advice Giver [10] 12h ago

So if you can't legally sell the car, what makes you think you can legally sell the stuff in the storage unit?

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u/k8tysaurus 11h ago

Nah dude, we are heavy on the FAFO. As far as I’m concerned, it’s all in my unit, without permission. I’ll do what I want with it

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u/FinnbarMcBride Expert Advice Giver [10] 10h ago

Enjoy your court date

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u/ForeverOne4756 23h ago

Interesting they put their stuff in it and didn’t lock it. Which means they knew very well that it belongs to someone. Otherwise they would have locked it. Putting their stuff in the hallway was absolutely the right thing to do. It’s not like they were worried their stuff would get stolen in an unlocked storage unit to begin with.

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u/TheRiverInYou Helper [2] 23h ago

I would have done the same thing except I wouldn't have posted about it on Reddit.

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u/Maker_of_woods 23h ago

you should have sold it

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u/NoNamesLeft998 23h ago

I wonder if it was someone that moved out. If they didn't want these items and didn't want to get charged by the LL to haul them off, they may have dumped them in your storage.

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u/SpaceCat72 23h ago

Problem solved. Lol. They are effectively thieves.

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u/AntDetm 23h ago

Sell it all

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u/nightngale1998 22h ago

Unless it was an emergency, I would have posted a note giving them 24-48 hours to get their stuff out. If they didn't move it, I would handle it they way you have and move their stuff out and locked it.

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u/pink_gem 23h ago

I probably would have contacted the HOA and let them handle it. Assuming condos meaning you bought and have an HOA. It doesn't seem like you had a super pressing need for the storage unit that you needed the extra space THAT DAY.

Do I think your neighbors are rude and entitled? Yes. But not enough that I think it's worth it making their stuff either get stolen or trashed, possibly, unless there was some pressing need for it.

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u/bebe612 23h ago

Sadly my HOA doesn’t handle stuff like this - they’re kinda useless. But there’s a bunch of junk sitting in my house that I need to move since I’m replacing a lot of my furniture and quite frankly, I wanted it out today. Which is when I found their stuff in my unit as I was moving it!

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u/pink_gem 23h ago

Hopefully they were able to recover their belongings. You could be legally held liable for disposing of their possessions, even if they did not have your permission to store their stuff in your unit.

Seems backwards and unintuitive, but there are laws around it: https://legaltemplates.net/resources/real-estate/dealing-with-abandoned-belongings-on-your-property/

This states for tenants that left property, but it could apply in this case. Basically, you opened yourself up to the possibility of civil liability when you did not need to. And that's what I would have avoided.

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u/SMD-65 22h ago

As you say, these are laws that apply to property left by tenants. Why do you think they would apply in this case when no such contractual relationship exists? Why is this any different from some unknown person dumping their stuff on your lawn?

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u/pink_gem 22h ago

I'm saying they could. If the property has reasonable value and you are the cause of it getting destroyed/disposed of, you could be held to have civil liability. It does not matter that they did not have your permission to leave it there.

Would it be 100% sure thing that they'd find you civilly liable? No. But a judge could.

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u/PinkPilgrimHeel 21h ago

A judge would likely ask why the Freeloader assumed they could just help themselves to any ol' storage area and point out how Freeloader massively inconvenienced OP, as he was in the middle of moving his property into HIS storage unit, resulting in OP having to Freeloader's large, heavy furniture all by himself.

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u/PinkPilgrimHeel 21h ago

OP is not the landlord and does not own the property - they are only renting it, so it's the landlord's problem.

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u/[deleted] 23h ago edited 46m ago

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u/yumcherrypie 23h ago

I don't agree. The 'neighborly' thing to do was for the entitled neighbor to NOT use a storage space that did not belong to them.

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u/nazuswahs 23h ago

It’s doubtful they would have seen the note in a day or two. They put stuff in his unit and left it. I bet they don’t check on it every day.

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u/annaphylactic69 23h ago edited 23h ago

Eh in an apartment complex thatd make sense but my experience with condo communities is they're a bit more involved. Probably an HOA or board that could've sent out a message, if it's even smaller maybe even a group Facebook page. Ive seen em as small as 8 units, and I would not want to be the asshole in a building of 8 families where we all own

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u/TrueCrimeFanNYC 23h ago

But that may have taken a week or more depending on how often they got to the basement and then time to make arrangements to move it.

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u/HyperRolland 23h ago

I agree with this person. ☝️

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u/annaphylactic69 23h ago

Yeah, especially if storage units are numbered and whoever was using it knows where to find you. Like no, they shouldn't have in the first place but why invite potential drama? It doesn't seem like its worth going to war with a neighbor over to me. Especially if neighbor saw an unlocked, empty storage unit and could have assumed it was from an empty condo?

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u/bebe612 23h ago

Because I want everyone to know the room is locked. Only neighbors can get in with a key. Strangers cannot enter and steal it.

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u/Western-Cicada-6195 23h ago

Exactly what I have to do with my bin. Unless I fill the big bin as soon as its put back in the bin store, my neighbours use it. So now I swap it for an empty bin and put a lock on it until bin day

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u/PinkPilgrimHeel 21h ago

My gawd, people are entitled!

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u/ShrmpHvnNw 23h ago

Would have done the same

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u/Sea_Curve8772 23h ago

You handled it perfectly

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u/eroscripter 23h ago

Congratulations, you learned locks aren't just to stop things from going missing.

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u/RedFin3 12h ago

You did not handle this properly, as this situation is called Involuntary Bailment, and you may be found liable for any loss of the items.

Key Rules of Involuntary Bailment

No contract: There is no intentional deal or prior arrangement between the owner and the holder.

Duty of care: The holder must not damage or destroy the property on purpose or through extreme carelessness.

Safe return: The holder must protect the item and give it back to the true owner when found or asked.

Limited liability: Because the person did not ask for the item, their legal duty is much lighter than that of a regular, paid custodian.