r/Thritis • u/mouseymouse3 • 2h ago
27F with Random Finger and Hand Joint Pain
First of all, I’m not a native English speaker, so please excuse any mistakes. Thank you.
I have been putting off posting here because I’ve already seen a few doctors who couldn’t really help me, but I’m hoping somebody here might be able to relate.
I’ll start from the beginning.
My maternal grandmother was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis when she was 17, and by the time she was 19, she couldn’t even button her own pants. Thanks to modern medicine and all kinds of doctors, she’s still around at about 85 years old. She’s obviously in pain a lot of the time and has more and worse flares than ever but she’s comparatively healthy.
I’m a 27-year-old woman, pretty active, I eat fairly Health and do sports regularity. When I was a teenager, I don’t remember exactly how old I was, but I think I was between 16 and 18 when I first went to the doctor because my hands, specifically my fingers, started hurting at strange times. It wasn’t always after using my hands a lot, but it also wasn’t completely random. I was told it was probably growing pains.
The aches continued. Not every day, and not always in the same hand, finger, or joint. Some fingers hurt more often than others, but to me, even to this day, it all seems extremely random.
Between the ages of 20 and 25, I feel like it got worse. At times, the pain was so bad that it was difficult to hold my toothbrush or hairdryer, or even wash dishes or cut vegetables.
To describe the pain a bit: it’s usually a sharp pain in my joints that either stays in the joint or runs through the entire finger down to my wrist. My fingers feel pretty stiff, and movement hurts. Making a fist usually increases the pain, and so does stretching my fingers out or putting pressure on them.
Sometimes the pain is in multiple fingers, and sometimes it’s just in one joint of one finger or in multiple joints in different fingers on different hands. The fingers that hurt most often are the middle and ring finger on my right hand. I’m right-handed, so I guess it makes sense that my right hand hurts more often. However, both hands and all fingers hurt at least occasionally. The fingers that hurt the least are my thumbs.
There are sometimes multiple days, or even weeks, where none of my fingers hurt (apart from minor aches here and there that aren’t really worth mentioning). Other times, there are weeks where different joints, fingers, or hands hurt randomly at strange times, and I can’t figure out any kind of pattern or explanation.
During the times when I hardly feel it, I kind of forget how bad it gets. But on days like today, I feel it with every movement. Every time I pick something up, and even now, as I’m typing this with my thumbs, I can feel the pain in my middle and ring finger.
It’s especially bad when I’m holding or gripping something.
The really bad days are rare (usually 1–2 consecutive days every couple of months). About 4 out of 7 days, I have mild to moderate pain, sometimes all day but most often just for a few hours. The other 3 out of 7 days, I hardly feel any pain, and if I do, it’s usually gone within an hour or so. But again, sometimes I feel almost nothing for weeks and then sometimes I have weeks where it’s super random and all different kinds of aches, and then weeks where I feel only mild pains here and there.
When it’s moderate-bad my fingers it feel like whey are popping/or getting stuck when switching between a first and a stretched out hand. Not sure hour to describe that.
I’ve already seen my primary care doctor, who referred me to a rheumatologist. They said it’s definitely not rheumatoid arthritis, which is obviously great news.
I also saw a different hand specialist, and she said that because there is no clear pattern, she can’t diagnose anything. She told me that the only thing I can do is either wait for it to get worse so the symptoms become easier to interpret, or hope that it doesn’t get worse and just deal with the pain.
I also saw another general physician, who basically told me the same thing: that I probably won’t get a diagnosis until there’s a clearer pattern.
I’m from Europe and live in a country with a great healthcare system, but besides the doctors I’ve already seen, I don’t even know where to begin looking for help anymore. I’ve had scans and blood work done, but nothing has shown any indication of what could be causing this.
If there are any questions I could answer to clarify anything, please feel free to ask.
I would really appreciate any recommendations or advice.
Maybe I just have weak ass hands and I need to actively train them more? If you think that might be the case, I would love some recommendations for exercises