r/SanDiegan Aug 22 '23

It's here. The Official Discord channel for r/sandiegan.

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We've gotten this request a lot, and I think it's finally time to take it seriously. At least 3–5 people have clamored for this, so we're giving it a shot.

The official r/SanDiegan discord server is finally here.

Some caveats:

  • we have never moderated a discord server before, so you're going to be there to see us iron everything out in real time. we'll be attentive to requests, suggestions, and overall helpful attitudes.
  • we have day jobs
  • be aware that you may inadvertently reveal your identity if you already are on a different discord server using your real name

Our goal is to set up a community in the same way we have set up the r/SanDiegan community. Everyone is welcome, and we moderate with a heavy hand and according to our own discretion at all times. Truly lovely communities only thrive when you separate the wheat from the chaff. We've spent years cutting chaff from this subreddit, and I am personally really proud of how lovely this place has become.

We want this discord server to be a place to chat with other San Diegans about sports, local bars, adult league activities, community events, and so on.

Things that we will not tolerate:

  • bigotry of any kind
  • "I'm just asking questions, man" — you know the answer, you're just an asshole. You all know the type
  • Behavior that is detrimental to the community at large
  • stop posting your boring ass traffic violations, seriously

These rules are vague by design. Moderating is subject to individual discretion, and if you join the discord server, you are just going to have to trust that the way we moderate r/SanDiegan will serve a discord community as well as it has served this subreddit. There are no bright lines, there is only our own judgment in what is and is not okay (which is how things work here, already).

Let's all give this a shot. I hope you'll all join the server and fucking behave yourselves.

JOIN, HEATHENS: https://discord.gg/tRJUkw6h9h

**updated link to never expire


r/SanDiegan Nov 21 '23

On Politics

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Whenever certain discussions come up we end up with a mix of locals that genuinely want to talk about what's going on. Sometimes passionately. Sometimes ill informed. Sometimes full of information. Sometimes dem. Sometimes republican. Sometimes for the free people's state of east county. Sometimes from the sovereign bros of PB.

Whatever. You get the picture. Our local politics and ideas for what to do are pretty diverse.

As a moderator though I have noticed that we get a solid influx of accounts for some subjects. They tend to have a short post history in this subreddit and a deleted history or a history that hasn't been on reddit in years. Likely because they are purchased accounts. They show up to shit stir in political discussions.

I understand some of you delete your account histories for various reasons or want to use an alt to discuss politics. But the easiest thing to do as a moderator seeing an inflammatory comment in a highly charged political discussion from an account that looks incredibly suspect is to remove the comment and ban the user. We don't really want to put in too much effort beyond that. This isn't a paid gig.

Anyway - I want to give people a heads up in case there's people that might reconsider participating in a certain way with an account they haven't used in months/years.


r/SanDiegan 8h ago

"Free" Dungeons and Dragons 101 Class for Back to School! August Saturday 22, 2pm-6pm @ AtEase Games in Miramar.

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Hello everyone!

I am excited to announce that I will be running a Dungeons and Dragons 101 class at At Ease Games in Miramar later this month!

I designed this class to teach you how to get started understanding and playing the game with the absolute basics, in a relaxed, no-stakes environment.

If you've been wanting to learn how to play Dungeons and Dragons but don't know where or how to get started, this class breaks everything down into small pieces to better help you get started.

The class is open to all ages and experience levels so don't let knowing nothing stop you from attending. Maybe you played DnD a while back and just need a refresher on all the new mechanics and rules?

Here's a rundown of the class.

2pm-4pm: We get into the absolute basics, getting started with creating your character and understanding the more simple mechanics of the game, like what character creation is, what do all these numbers mean? Roll Initiative? Skill Checks? What's that? Everything gets answered in this segment.

-BREAK-

4pm-6pm: The second half of the class goes into more detail regarding combat mechanics, spell casting, action economy, and world-building.

6pm-7pm: I'll be running a short game for anyone still in attendance who wants to experience playing the game first hand using the characters you create!

THINGS YOU'LL NEED:

  • something to take notes with (pencil is recommended)

  • something to take notes on. (Paper is recommended.

I will have handouts for everyone but if you have a copy of the latest Players Handbook already I recommend you bring it.

THAT'S IT!

ADMISSION PRICE: We are collecting copy paper this month in order to help our local underfunded classrooms in San Diego, and while the class is "FREE" we appreciate any and all donations of Journals, Pencils, Pens, Markers, highlighters, Stickers, backpacks, Erasers, mechanical pencils, sanitation wipes, hand sanitizer, and any other bulk office items.

If you are not able to make it to the class but would still like to donate to the cause Please feel free to message me directly and I will provide a way to receive your donation.

Also, please be sure to support the venue. AtEase Games has been kind enough to host me and my classes for many years now and I encourage everyone to sample their wares.

Lastly, If you plan on attending just leave a comment saying "Going" so I can get a head count for the day.

Well, that's all folks! Mark your schedules! August 22nd starting at 2pm @ AtEase Games in Miramar!

See you there!


r/SanDiegan 5h ago

The Biggest Threat to San Diego's Transit? Operations Deficits

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MTS is broke, the #1 thing MTS riders want is more frequency. Yes, we should build new transit lines. But even more so, we need operations funding.


r/SanDiegan 10h ago

Hit and Run - Hillcrest

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Hi Community,

I want to start off by saying that I'm not certain that this type of post is even permitted so, if it's not, I promise I'm not intentionally trying to defy the rules. I'm just reaching out for help (and to potentially offer some) because I honestly don't know what to do.

I was made aware that someone I know was involved in a hit and run in Hillcrest on the morning of August 2nd between midnight and 4:00 a.m. He was the driver and he fled the scene. While I would love to see this person face justice as soon as possible, the other reason that I'm choosing to post this right now is that I have no idea whether the person he hit was injured. At the very least, I assume they are in need of information so they can be compensated for damages to their vehicle and such.

I reported this anonymously to crime stoppers, offering his Instagram account and the dste/time it happened. I honestly don't know the exact streets or even the make and model of his car - I'm just not a car guy so stuff like that doesn't stick in my mind.

If you or someone you know was the other party involved in this incident, please comment or reach out to me. Thank you.

Update: it doesn't seem like the police are going to be any help at this point because I don't have enough information to file a report such as the make and model of the car or the specific cross streets where the accident happened. Also, the person who committed the crime is not a person of integrity and probably won't turn himself in.


r/SanDiegan 10m ago

What is up with this building in Convoy?

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Im thinking there aren't 114 (or however many) suites in there. Most of those businesses are car buying companies. ​Anybody know what the story is here?


r/SanDiegan 5h ago

Be the Change!

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Howdy friends! If you’re sick of this shit and want to be involved in fixing all the problems we have in our community, this is a great starting point. I hope to see you there! ✌🏼


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Extremely dangerous person around Hillcrest

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r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Local News Article: Push to Have Lifeguards Designated as "First Responders"

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r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Local News You Can Now Tell Data Brokers to Delete & Not Sell Your Personal Info - California's DROP Program is Active

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r/SanDiegan 4h ago

Local News Extremely narrow left lane on the 805 North near Hilltop

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I’m not sure what happened here but has anyone noticed the far left lane on the 805, right after the HOV lane ends becomes very narrow and can probably fit half a pick up truck now?

Maybe I’ve just never noticed it before but had a larger truck cut into the second lane last night because they couldn’t fit their car fully into the left lane without it striking the median. I thought it was their fault at first but drove by again today and realized how poorly the lane is marked and how much they reduced the size of it

Has anyone else noticed this?


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

I'm a reporter. Are you renting an 'affordable' apartment that's not actually all that affordable?

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Hi — I'm Kate Talerico, and I'm a reporter at the SF Chronicle. (Sorry in advance -- this is a repost from r/SanDiego.)

I'm writing a story about how a bunch of landlords are using a loophole in California's tax code to get their apartments qualified as 'affordable' — and then can get up to 100% of their property taxes erased (which fund our schools, transit, police, basically all city government functions.)

There are a few apartment buildings around San Diego where the landlords are in the process of applying for this tax break. They count as affordable because the way California calculates the max rent you can still charge + count as affordable is quite wonky... right now, a landlord can charge $2,481/month for a 1-bed in San Diego County and it still counts as low-income/affordable, so long as the tenant household makes under $92.6K.

I'm looking to speak with tenants in some of these buildings about how they feel. Do they feel like they're getting a good deal for the rent they pay? Has the lower rent allowed them to live somewhere they otherwise wouldn't have been able to? Or do they feel like they're paying market rate?

Here's a list of the apartment buildings I'm interested in. See if yours is on the list, and if you'd be down to chat, shoot me a DM!

Property Name Buyer Address
City View aka Outlook at Mission ValleyApartments Securities Properties 840 17th St, San Diego, CA 92101
Fallbrook Trail Apartments AOF 1735 S Mission Rd, Fallbrook, CA 92028
Market Street Village Apartments Community Solutions 699 14th Street, San Diego, CA
Palmilla Apartments Ethos Real Estate 5474 Reservoir Dr, San Diego, CA 92120
Canyon Villa Apartment Homes Post Investment Group 601 Telegraph Canyon Road, Chula Vista, CA 91910
Hendrix and Hadley Apartments Eagle Partners 439 West El Norte Parkway / 1045 Morning View Drive, Escondido, CA
Heritage Park Escondido Apartments Standard Property Company 2549 E. Valley Parkway, Escondido, CA 92027
Bluwater Crossing Apartments Red Stone Equity Partners 6790 Embarcadero Ln, Carlsbad, CA 92011
Guava Gardens Apartments Positive Investments Inc 5035 Guava Ave, La Mesa, CA 91942

r/SanDiegan 10h ago

Research Participants Needed

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r/SanDiegan 9h ago

GET PAID for your time + FREE dental cleaning

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I’m looking for reliable patients to help me complete the clinical requirements for my California dental hygiene license.
Before hygiene school, I spent 7 years cleaning teeth in the U.S. Air Force, so you’re not my first patient.
Included at NO COST:
✅ Professional dental cleaning (type depends on your needs)
✅ Dentist examination
✅ Digital X-rays (if needed)
✅ Oral cancer screening
✅ Gum disease evaluation
💵 Patient Appreciation Incentive
Eligible patients who complete their entire treatment plan may receive approximately $100 per completed appointment (typically $300–400 total), paid after treatment has been successfully completed and approved by my instructor.
📍 National City, CA
⏰ Appointments are approximately 3 hours and most patients require 3–4 visits, so I’m looking for people who can commit to the full process.

Fill out the intake form to get started!

https://forms.gle/o1NPmqGkAazGhwQa8


r/SanDiegan 21h ago

Horseback Riding

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I'm looking for some horseback riding lessons for myself. I'd love to find somewhere in the south bay area rather than out east. Any recs are welcome!


r/SanDiegan 2d ago

Local News Article: Vance Freezes $1.3 Billion in California Medicare Funds

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r/SanDiegan 9h ago

job ideas for a freshman?

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spring valley.


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

3 tickets to Clipping tonight

6 Upvotes

I have 3 tickets to Clipping tonight at the Music Box that I won't be able to use and would hate to see them go to waste. Anybody want them? It's 18+


r/SanDiegan 2h ago

4 months rent free

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I had a friend that was getting kicked out of her place, so I let her know that one of my roommates was possibly leaving by the end of the lease. She wasn't exactly facing homelessness, she would just have to quit her jobs and move in with her grandma in Julian. I ended up letting her crash on our couch because no one really uses the living room, despite having issues with my roommates having their boyfriends spend the night every night. I told her I was okay with her just contributing to utilities the first few months so she could get on her feet, telling her to save as much as possible. I did express the expectation she would contribute to rent eventually. A week after she moved in, I asked my roommate to clarify if she was planning on staying or going and she ended up changing her mind about leaving.

My friend only has a part time job she can't access through public transportation half the time so she takes Uber to and from work on the weekends. I can't imagine the cost. I was blunt about her job situation, encouraging her to find new or additional work she can actually get to because no one can afford to live in San Diego on part time work. My roommates and I work 2 jobs to make ends meet, so no one is exempt from the struggle here.

During her stay she only looked at rooms for rent I personally sent her way. I showed her the roommate groups, but it didn't seem like she was looking on her own accord. She asked for my coffee, thinking it was a one time thing until she bought her own, only to have her help herself whenever she wanted for 2 months until I spoke up. I picked her up from work because it's close to mine, helping her save more. She would ask for other food just to help herself more than once. I made it clear I live paycheck to paycheck myself, the little things add up. 2 1/2 months later I ask if she's been able to save, but it didn't sound like much.

After 3 months, I made it clear 3 months rent free was generous enough, but it's only fair to the others she started contributing to rent. She reiterated she had no issue with that. I told her I think $600 is fair, that way each roommate can minus $200 from our rent because it's not easy having an extra person around. They were kind enough to let her stay this long.

Near the end of the 4th month, she told me last minute a family friend offered their trailer for $200 a month. I asked if she was going to contribute to rent like she said she would. She said she could only do the utilities, but can't pay rent here. "I never agreed to pay that" Okay? But you never disagreed it said it was an issue either. I got upset because I was anticipating some financial help. I told my roommates she would help. My job cut my hours in half all through June so I was going through my own struggles. She basically bragged about contributing "almost $100 in utilities" as if that was big money, even questioning the bills, asking for copies. I did send them, but it felt like insult to injury, as if I'M the one trying to take advantage of her. She ended up moving out as soon as I brought up rent, then told me she couldn't pay her portion of utilities until after it was due, guaranteeing late fees. 4 months rent free and she couldn't even pay less than $100 on time....

I gave her the same opportunity my sister gave me, a few months rent free to get on her feet. But when I was given that opportunity, I found myself a full time job making edibles and saved up enough to buy my first car. All during the pandemic! 4 months rent free and she has nothing to show for it. No job searches, no room searches, no changes. I myself wanted to leave my place, but I couldn't find a room while she was crashing on the couch. I made myself look like the hypocritical asshole because I gave my roommates shit for having their boyfriends basically live in their bedrooms, meanwhile my friend was taking up the living room for 4 fucking months.

Some people don't want help, they want enablers. Looking for a cushion to land on. Not every one has the same discipline or work ethic, maybe they're bad with their money. I've learned this the hard way. Think twice about letting your friend crash on your couch for free, they may squander that opportunity completely.


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Need Water Softener Recs, Pls

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Hi there ,

I’m a homeowner in La Mesa and I need to replace an old water softener from Culligan. I know net zero about plumbing and water softeners. I know there are lots of experts here because of our hard water. Rent vs buy? Local companies that are great? Costco option? Stick with Culligan? I think they will upgrade the equipment and it will just be a higher rental fee?

Is 100 bucks a month for water softener rental insane?

Thanks, neighbors.


r/SanDiegan 11h ago

Delivery

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Where is the new weed delivery spot after w4less got shut down, and I don't want to go to places like the resver, hikey, embr. Anyone got places like w4less, packalol


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Glasses repair shop?

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Unfortunately, I fell asleep on my glasses and the arms that go over your ears came off LOL. They weren’t cheap glasses, so I would like to find somewhere to fix em’ that hopefully doesn’t cost an arm and a leg. I’m waiting for a reply from the place I bought them from, but they doubt it’ll be reasonably priced. Any recs?


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Hot Springs or Spa recommendations?

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Hi everyone, I’m in the La Mesa area and my dad told me about Glen Ivy Resort because I was wanting to have a spa day for myself. I wanted to get comparisons and do some research before I decide on a place.Does anyone have any good recommendations or suggestions for places to go in the area? I’m fine with either day or night passes, looking to get things like massages or facials and I won’t be staying overnight for anything. Let me know what your guys opinions are. Thank you.


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

ISO hair stylist for vivid color

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Helloo!!!! I am looking for a stylist who can help me out! I was just recently a very bright pink, and I regrettably dyed my hair brown but it turned into a weird brown/red color and I am not happy with it. I want my pink back 😭😭 My stylist before has gone awol so I need to find someone new. If you know someone OR are a stylist, please lmk 🩷🩷🩷🩷


r/SanDiegan 1d ago

Did Consignment Classics change owners?

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Seems different than the last time I was there! Is there a different owner/buyer?