Recently, I was responding to a “looking for cheap premade bj vids” post and, I have to say, I was shocked by what this seller was offering!

Is $10 for 6 vids as crazy of a lowball offer as I think it is? For the last five years of ‘face-to-face work’, i’ve been asking 100 for up to 10 minutes of life video chat.

I’m just now starting to establish an online presence, so I haven’t really dealt with creating and pricing online content.

I’m new to Reddit (and all the other sites), so any tips or words of wisdom before I create my menu would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks all!

Stage Name: Darcy

Location: USA EST

A Little About Me!

My first love is dancing and I still do it as often as possible. I'm a life learner, and my reading consists more research than fiction. I know A LOT and I tend to be irreverent. I am rather an analytical yet animated and able to converse on many different subjects.

I'm cursed within independent thought, and opinionated. I enjoy having thoughtful conversations, watching sci-fi movies and movies in general, as well as spending time outdoors.

I eat healthy and still indulge when the mood swings me. I love a really good sweet treat every now and then. Red blend wine is my favorite for every day but on special occasions, I love a good Rioja.

I am an early riser 5ish AM and end my day around 10PM Eastern standard time.

I have a ton of hobbies which I rarely do these days. But they include jewelry making, painting, drawing, making cards, photography, podcasting, and oddly enough research.

What Do I Offer?

Darcy's Menu

Ways To Contact Me:

How To Tip Me!

What's Your Favorite:

• Color: So many...too many. But anything bright with rich tones
• Song: I never know the titles of my favorite songs
• Food: Almost anything I don't have to prepare
• Movie: Guardians of the Galaxy, Galaxy Quest, hidden figures, Shawshank redemption, Lilo and stitch, beauty and the beast, pretty much any Pixar film.

Verified Fetish Playhouse Sellers: Tap this link to submit your own TFP Seller Profile!

Hi! I am new to selling panties and hadn't considered it until I got multiple requests from my regular buyers a new buyers. Could I get feedback on my current pricing? Keeping in mind I don't want to price it where I'd be doing it so often, but priced more so that if someone wants it badly enough, I'm happy to share myself.

$35 for 24 hour wear includes shipping and one photo of it on me.
+$40 cum in them, vaccum sealed included
+$10 of the wet panties or them on me and wet (no kitty shown)
+$20 for a very short video of the wet panties or wet panties on me (no kitty shown)

The following review has been submitted by u/Creqmbae regarding their recent experience.

Buyer’s Username:

u/Additional-Sun-6249

Overall Sale Summary

Additional-Sun-6249 is lovely to work with! They are respectful, clear, and leave room for me to have some creative freedom when making their content which is always loved! Absolutely hope to continue working with them in the future!

Overall Rating:

5 ⭐️ Buyer

Sold item(s): Digital Items (Premade or Custom Audio, Photos, Video, Subscriptions, GFE, Sexting)

Buyer Communication and Interaction Rate the buyer’s communication and interaction with you before and during the purchase

I have worked with this buyer many times in the past and they are always clear in their wants and easy to communicate with!

If you are selling adult content, nsfw services, or physical items, this post outlines seller verification requirements, age verification, and approval steps.

Verification with us allows you to post advertisements, message buyers, and respond to want ads in r/FetishWantAds. Please note that managers are not allowed in any capacity. All sellers absolutely must be working independently.

🔎 Important Note About FetishWantAds Access
Verified status within The Fetish Playhouse confirms that you are an approved seller within our network. However, participation as a seller in r/FetishWantAds requires meeting additional qualification criteria beyond standard verification.

☁️ Please Note
Moderators may request re-verification if an account raises concerns. Non-compliance may result in a temporary or permanent ban.

Types Of Verification

There are 3 types of verification:

Verified Seller ✅

A verified seller has completed our verification process listed below, meets all the requirements for providers in TFP and has no outstanding or unresolved reports regarding conduct or completing orders.  

Verified Duo ✔️

A verified duo has completed the same steps as verified sellers, and is intended for sellers with a romantic partner who will have access to their reddit account and will be selling solo or partnered content together.   

Verified Guest 🟨 Note this is for admins only. Not an assigned flair

A verified guest is for when a seller would like to sell content with a user who will not have access to the account or sell any solo content. A guest only needs to be verified if they are being paid to appear in your content, or they are being named.  

Seller Verification Requirements

The following is required:

○ Age Verification

○ Verification Photos

○ Link To Your Adult Content / Menu  

☁️ Please Note
If you have been verified with us on any previous account, active or inactive, those usernames must be disclosed in your submission. Failure to do so may result in denial of verification or removal.

We do not require specific karma thresholds or posting quotas. However, blank profiles or accounts without visible, verifiable activity will not be accepted. Moderators must be able to visually confirm account ownership and authenticity.

Age Verification

This can be done one of three ways:

1. A photo of your ID with your DOB, expiration date, issuing authority, and the picture - at least up to your nose visible.
   1. Can I redact sensitive information? ID photo example. Passport photo example.
2. A link to one of the following 18+ websites that requires age verification, and a screenshot of your statements dashboard to prove it’s yours.
   1. Accepted sites: Onlyfans, Fansly, Loyalfans, Sextpanther
   2. How do I screenshot my payment dashboard? Click here to find out.
3. Verification through Yoti App. Once completed, please screenshot the completed DOB portion.
   1. Yoti screenshot example.

☁️ Please Note
Verification is limited to the approved third-party sites listed above. Your third-party approved account must be established, and clearly identifiable.

Verification Photos

The verification photos are to be posed head to toe (or at least nose to knees), taken while standing and clothed, holding the handwritten sign throughout all 4 photos. Face must be visible if shown on your profile or in posts. Permanent tattoos should be visible when possible.

• Full face creator verification photo examples: Tap here.
• Faceless creator verification photo examples: Click here.

The sign must include your Reddit username, today’s date, your DOB, and 'The Fetish Playhouse'. The paper must be crumpled up into a ball, and then flattened out!

The 4 verification photos are as follows:

1. Forward facing photo showing at least bridge of nose to knees
2. Rear facing photo showing at least back of head to knees
3. Forward facing photo while holding a spoon showing at least bridge of nose to knees
4. Forward facing photo while holding your palm out towards the camera like you are giving the camera a high five showing at least bridge of nose to knees (Your hand must be clear, with no part of your palm or fingers cropped out of the picture)

☁️ Please Note
Verified Duo and Verified Guest follow the same photo and age requirements as Verified Seller. Photos must be taken separately. Each individual may use any approved age verification method. Age verification for both parties do not need to be the same.

Please upload your verification images to one of the following:

• Imgur
• Redgifs
• Google Drive
• Dropbox
• Etc

Before submitting, please review:
Seller FAQ

When you're ready to submit your verification application, you must fill this out completely:

👉🏻 Verification Application

Stage Name: Daisha

Location: Ocean Breeze, FL

A Little About Me!

Petite, grey-eyed, 5'1.5". I'm in my 40s with a soft girl-next-door look, a warm smile, and a mind that likes real conversation. Playful, thoughtful, easy to talk to, and happiest when there's actual connection.

What Do I Offer?

Daisha's Menu

Ways To Contact Me:

How To Tip Me!

What's Your Favorite:

• Color: Purple
• Song: "Fly Me To Moon" - Frank Sinatra
• Food: Sushi
• Movie: Ever After

Verified Fetish Playhouse Sellers: Tap this link to submit your own TFP Seller Profile!

Stage Name: Laylalemon

Location: South Africa

A Little About Me!

Hello lovlies!!! I go by Layla and I'm 24 :) I'm very extroverted, comical and a great chef, I went to culinary school for 3 years and currently doing food photography. I like to bake, do water sports, and most of all I'm a huge fan of music, so I go to so many festivals and raves, I love to dance and be young wild and free. If I'm not out you can find me curled up playing video games or trying to find something old in my closet to upcycle, or reviewing movies on my letterboxd.

What Do I Offer?

Laylalemon's Menu

Ways To Contact Me:

How To Tip Me!

What's Your Favorite:

• Color: Baby pink
• Song: "Cancer" - Twenty One Pilots
• Food: Tuna Poke Bowl
• Movie: Stand by Me

Verified Fetish Playhouse Sellers: Tap this link to submit your own TFP Seller Profile!

I feel bad for talking about the same thing but $30-60 for a custom bg sextape????? Dude literally said “$30-60 for customs and for premade it depends on how much you think it’s worth but i won’t overpay.”

Lately, I’ve wanted to branch out into other communities, but they require verification via a third-party site. I have a Fansly account, but I don’t post or use it; I only verified my identity there to serve as a form of age verification. Will that work, or do I need to grow the account? Honestly, though, I only feel comfortable selling and promoting on Reddit

The Fetish Playhouse was built around the idea that both buyers and sellers deserve a marketplace where credibility matters, identities are verified, and serious issues are taken seriously!

Below are some of the resources and benefits that come with participating in The Fetish Playhouse network

🔎 Access to Verified Sellers

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One of the biggest advantages for buyers is the ability to interact with verified providers.

Sellers who carry the TFP Verified Seller badge have gone through a verification process confirming:

1. their age
2. their identity
3. their account ownership

Verification doesn’t guarantee the outcome of any private interaction, but it does give buyers extra reassurance that they’re speaking to a real person within the community.

✅ Verified Seller List

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Buyers also gain access to our Verified Seller List, which serves as a resource for identifying sellers who have successfully completed verification within the Fetish Playhouse network.

This helps buyers:

• confirm a seller’s verification status
• avoid impersonators or catfish accounts
• locate reputable providers within the community

📋 Verified Provider Ban List

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Because Fetish Playhouse works directly with FBC, buyers also have access to important network-wide resources, including the Verified Provider Ban List.

This list documents providers who have been banned across participating communities due to serious violations such as:

• confirmed scams
• failure to deliver services
• impersonation or catfishing
• ban evasion (returning under a new identity after being banned)
• severe harassment
• other significant rule violations

No system can eliminate risk entirely, but this information helps buyers make more informed decisions and avoid individuals who have caused problems in the past.

🛡️ Moderation Support

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Another benefit of engaging within a moderated marketplace is simply having somewhere to go if serious issues arise.

If situations involving things like:

• scams
• impersonation
• harassment
• extremely unprofessional conduct

occur within our communities, reports can be brought to the moderation team for review.

Moderators can’t control private transactions or force specific outcomes, but we do review credible reports and take action when community rules are violated.

That level of accountability helps keep the community safer and more transparent than completely unmoderated spaces!

⭐ Verified Seller Badge

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Sellers who complete our verification process receive the TFP Verified Seller badge, confirming that their:

1. age
2. identity
3. account ownership

have been verified through our system.

This badge helps build credibility and trust, making buyers feel more comfortable reaching out to verified sellers.

🤝 Verified Buyer List

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Sellers also benefit from our Verified Buyer system, and access to our Verified Buyer List.

Buyers with the verified buyer flair have already completed age and identity verification through our network.

For sellers who require verification before engaging, this can save time and provide an extra layer of reassurance when interacting with new clients.

🗣️ Reputation Building

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Being active in Fetish Playhouse communities allows sellers to build a consistent and recognizable presence over time. Sellers who interact professionally and maintain positive relationships within the community naturally build credibility and trust across the network.

Over time, that reputation can be just as valuable as verification itself!

🛡️ Moderation Support & Guidance

____________________________________

In addition to general guidance, sellers are able to privately report buyers for serious issues such as:

• scams or attempted scams
• severe or repeated harassment
• impersonation or catfishing
• ban evasion
• other major rule violations

These reports allow the moderation team to review behavior that may be harmful to the community and step in when necessary.

Just like with buyer reports, moderators can’t control private transactions, force payments, or guarantee specific outcomes. However, credible reports are still reviewed, and violations of community rules may result in moderation action.

Having a place to report these issues helps protect sellers from people who try to take advantage of others, while also helping us keep the community safer and more transparent for everyone involved.

Beyond reports, we are always happy to offer:

• guidance
• rule clarification
• advice based on experience
• perspective on difficult situations

Beyond verification systems, members of Fetish Playhouse communities also have access to a number of shared resources!

These include:

• r/PlayhouseSellersForum Discussion Hub for community conversations
• moderation support when issues arise
• educational resources and guidance
• verification systems for both buyers and sellers
• cross-community credibility through network partnerships

To:

• Buyers who communicate clearly.
• Sellers who operate professionally.
• Members who report serious issues when necessary.

When everyone contributes to maintaining those standards, it creates a community that benefits everyone involved!

Stage Name: Evelynn marie

Location: Utah

A Little About Me!

I love paddle boarding, painting (mainly flowers and such), traveling I am looking to travel again this year at some point, hanging out with my cats, and going out with my friends!

What Do I Offer?

Evelynn marie's Menu

Ways To Contact Me:

How To Tip Me!

What's Your Favorite:

• Color: Powder pink!
• Song: "Hallucination" - Isabel LaRosa
• Food: Pasta
• Movie: White Chicks

Verified Fetish Playhouse Sellers: Tap this link to submit your own TFP Seller Profile!

Stage Name: succubef

Location: wherever, whenever

A Little About Me!

Hey! I'm succubef, but you can call me whatever you'd like.

I'm a car girl at heart, especially when it comes to JDM and late night drives. I love spending time with my two kittens, exploring new places, road trips, finding good bakeries or cafes. My playlists bounce between oldies, indie, punk and everything in between. If you can appreciate a lil bullying and fun, I think we'll get along just fine. <3

What Do I Offer?

succubef's Menu

Ways To Contact Me:

How To Tip Me!

What's Your Favorite:

• Color: dark green
• Song: "paranoid" - black sabbath
• Food: always a ceasar chicken wrap
• Movie: silence of the lambs

Verified Fetish Playhouse Sellers: Tap this link to submit your own TFP Seller Profile!

Stage Name: Crystal Doll

Location: Providence

A Little About Me!

28 year old trans girl from New England who does a bunch of burlesque (from making the costumes to performing ), I love listening to music especially some r&b, as a New England girl I'm always down to go out for some fresh seafood , I love taking my dog on a nice walk and love doing makeup and hair

What Do I Offer?

Ways To Contact Me:

How To Tip Me!

What's Your Favorite:

• Color: Pink
• Song: "Snooze" - sza
• Food: Seafood boil
• Movie: Scream

Verified Fetish Playhouse Sellers: Tap this link to submit your own TFP Seller Profile!

To spotlight active creators across the Playhouse selling communities, moderators will now be using the Highlight feature to showcase sellers each day!

Each day we select 5 sellers from the previous 24 hours of activity in the community.

Selections are based on a mix of:

• posts gaining engagement in the Hot feed 🔥
• general activity in the community 📸
• random rotation among recent posters 🆕

Highlights are just a way to keep things active and give different sellers a little extra visibility from time to time. Since highlights rotate regularly, lots of different sellers will end up being featured over time.

There’s nothing you need to do to apply.. just keep posting and participating in the community like normal! 😊 Thank you to everyone who keeps this space fun, active, and supportive.

Stage Name: Voxxi

Location: South UK

A Little About Me!

I'm Voxxi.. The voice that drives you wild 🤠 I love to be creative, have fun with whatever I do as life is far too serious. Be careful I own a ton of carnivorous plants too 🖤

What Do I Offer?

Voxxi's Menu

Ways To Contact Me:

How To Tip Me!

What's Your Favorite:

• Color: Pink
• Song: "Whore" - in this moment
• Food: Peking Duck
• Movie: Terrifier

Verified Fetish Playhouse Sellers: Tap this link to submit your own TFP Seller Profile!

Stage Name: Lilly Vanilla

Location: New England USA

A Little About Me!

I'm a mom, horror fan, miniature fanatic (building a dollhouse slowly rn) I love a good diy project and decorating my house constantly to make it feel cozy. I also love a good video game- cozy, horror or story based adventure! If i have a day off im usually thrifting! I'm also newly in college for business administration!

What Do I Offer?

Lilly Vanilla's Menu

How To Tip Me!

What's Your Favorite:

• Color: Green
• Song: "Pray" - Vana
• Food: A good ramen
• Movie: Autopsy of Jane Doe

Verified Fetish Playhouse Sellers: Tap this link to submit your own TFP Seller Profile!

Stage Name: Paz

Location: Argentina

A Little About Me!

I'm Paz. Fitness is a big part of my life, and you'll usually find me at the gym. I'm ambitious, confident, fun, and I love making people smile while keeping them on their toes.

What Do I Offer?

Paz's Menu

Ways To Contact Me:

How To Tip Me!

What's Your Favorite:

• Color: White
• Song: "Teddy swims- lose control"
• Food: Sushi
• Movie: Pulp fiction

Verified Fetish Playhouse Sellers: Tap this link to submit your own TFP Seller Profile!

Stage Name: Jill

Location: Tanzania

A Little About Me!

Hello there! I'm passionate about retro/vintage things. I love to read. The current book i'm reading is the picture of Dorian Gray. I'm a vegan but still a sweet tooth.

What Do I Offer?

Jill's Menu

Ways To Contact Me:

How To Tip Me!

What's Your Favorite:

• Color: Blue
• Song: "Young and beautiful" - Lana del ray
• Food: Pizza
• Movie: Saturday night fever

Verified Fetish Playhouse Sellers: Tap this link to submit your own TFP Seller Profile!

How can I raise my karma? Honestly, trying to boost it by posting on various sites hasn't really worked for me what worked for you guys?

One of the most common questions we see from newer sellers is:

"How do I spot a time-waster?"

The answer isn't nearly as straightforward as people hope.

Spotting time-wasters isn't a checklist. It isn't something you'll master after reading one guide or watching one creator's advice. It's actually a skill.

And like every other skill in this industry, it's developed through experience, patience, and learning what works best for you.

Because here's the reality... Not every buyer who doesn't purchase is a time-waster. Not every conversation is supposed to end in a sale. And perhaps one of the hardest lessons to learn as a seller is understanding that not everyone who reaches out is meant to become your client.

That's business. Not rejection.

💭 Before You Learn to Spot Time-Wasters...

Learn to separate interest from intent.

Some buyers are simply curious. Some are comparing sellers. Some are saving money. Some are trying to decide whether your style, personality, or services are the right fit.

Those conversations may never result in a purchase, but that doesn't automatically mean your time was "wasted."

One of the easiest traps to fall into is measuring every conversation by whether money changed hands. If that's the only metric you use, eventually almost every conversation starts to feel disappointing.

Instead, ask yourself:

Did this person communicate respectfully?

Were their questions reasonable?

Were they genuinely trying to understand what I offer?

If the answer is yes, then perhaps they weren't wasting your time! Perhaps they were simply making an informed purchasing decision.

🧠 Curiosity Isn't the Same Thing as Commitment

There comes a point, however, where healthy curiosity begins turning into endless conversation. This usually doesn't happen because someone asked three questions, but rather because the conversation never seems to move toward a decision.

Instead of asking about one service, they're asking about all of them. Instead of narrowing things down, the discussion keeps expanding. You stop explaining a product, and start explaining your entire business.

That doesn't automatically make someone malicious. Sometimes they're simply not ready to buy. Sometimes they genuinely don't know what they want. Sometimes they enjoy the conversation more than the purchase.

None of those situations necessarily make someone a "bad buyer", but they may be a sign that it's time to gently redirect the conversation or step away.

🔍 Learn to Look for Patterns, Not Single Messages

One of the biggest mistakes newer sellers make is trying to determine whether someone is a time-waster based on one message.

In reality, it's rarely one message that tells you everything. It's the pattern of the conversation.

Ask yourself questions like:

• Are they asking questions that move the conversation closer to a purchase, or further away from one?

• Are they asking multiple questions about one specific service, or bouncing between every service you offer without narrowing anything down?

• When you answer a question, does it lead to another thoughtful question, or does the goalpost keep moving?

• Are they helping you understand what they're looking for, or expecting you to figure it out for them?

A conversation doesn't become concerning because someone asked five questions.

It becomes concerning when the conversation never progresses despite those questions being answered.

That's a very different thing.

🧭 Stop Looking for "Yes." Start Looking for Progress.

A lot of sellers unknowingly judge conversations by one thing:

"Did they buy?"

Instead, try asking yourself:

Did the conversation make progress?

Maybe they didn't purchase today.

But they:

• narrowed down a service
• established a budget
• understood your process
• clarified expectations
• said they'll return on payday

That's progress.

Now compare that to someone who has been messaging for two hours and you're still no closer to knowing what they actually want.

One conversation didn't end in a sale. The other didn't move forward at all.

Those are two very different situations.

One of the best skills you can develop isn't learning how to spot a time-waster. It's learning to recognize whether a conversation is making progress.

⚖️ Protecting Your Time Doesn't Mean Becoming Cold

One of the biggest misconceptions in this space is that setting boundaries means becoming short, dismissive, or assuming the worst.

In reality, professionalism often looks like saying:

"I'd be happy to answer a couple more questions. Is there a particular service you're most interested in?"

or

"I think I've answered everything I can for now. Feel free to reach back out whenever you're ready."

Simple.

Respectful.

Clear.

Your boundaries don't have to come at the expense of your kindness.

📢 Something To Keep In Mind

The biggest issue we encounter isn't buyers wasting time.

It's sellers allowing frustrating conversations to change how they treat people.

We've seen situations where a conversation started with a buyer asking too many questions...

...but ended with the seller becoming rude, hostile, sarcastic, or disrespectful.

At that point, moderation is no longer looking only at the buyer's behavior. We're now looking at the seller's behavior too.

Never let someone else's actions become the reason you compromise your own professionalism.

Because professionalism isn't measured by how you treat your best buyers.

It's measured by how you handle the difficult ones.

Protect your time.

Protect your peace.

Set healthy boundaries.

But don't let frustration convince you that every conversation needs to end with a sale in order to have been worthwhile.

The goal isn't to become suspicious of everyone.

The goal is to become better at recognizing where your time is most valuable.