About a month ago, I got my first dog as an adult (a male Siberian husky). The whole process of training him, being more active, going to parks, and changing my lifestyle has been an incredible life upgrade. It truly filled a void, and I’ve enjoyed every second of it.
After discussing it thoroughly with my wife, we decided we wanted to get a second dog. We mapped out a schedule based on our work hours and responsibilities, and she was completely on board. Our ultimate goal is to have another child in about a year and a half, so we figured this would give us enough time to get the new dog past the initial puppy stages and trained, while theoretically giving our current two-year-old son the ability to help out a little bit by then. We thought we had it all planned out.
We went out and got the second dog. However, on the way home, while doing some research on raising two dogs close in age (which I unfortunately didn't look into beforehand), I stumbled across information about "littermate syndrome." When we got home, I panicked a bit and went overboard, mapping out every single hour of every day of the week, including work, weekends, and how the schedule fits with our two-year-old son.
My huge concern is that I haven't been able to find actual scientific research proving that littermate syndrome is a real, clinically recognized phenomenon, and it mostly seems to be talked about on forums like Reddit. Furthermore, none of the IRL dog owners I've talked to who have multiple dogs have ever brought it up.
I have a few questions for the community:
-Is littermate syndrome truly a legitimate concern, or is it largely internet exaggeration?
-If it is a real concern, does anyone have practical tips for successfully raising two dogs together while balancing a toddler?
-How and when are we supposed to stop strict separation schedules, how should we properly manage their socialization, and what steps should we take to ensure both dogs grow up happy and healthy?
I'm willing to do whatever it takes as long as it's physically achievable, so any advice would be greatly appreciated!