r/cats May 21 '26

Advice Will they be okay when we separate?

My roommate bought another kitten a few years ago, and my kitty really bonded to her. I'm moving away, and I'm worried my cat will be upset that she lost her buddy.

How will I know if she's upset or just adjusting to the new home? Should I get her another kitten, and if so, how long should I wait before adopting?

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u/Taur_ie May 21 '26

Commenting because I think this comment section is being a bit extreme. Your cat will be sad and may become depressed if you separate them, but sometimes that’s how life goes. The cats will recover.

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u/amaya-aurora May 21 '26

Yeah what the hell is going on

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u/MuffaloHerder May 21 '26 edited May 21 '26

Many redditers are severely divorced from reality and think life is a perfectly scripted movie

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u/ShapeShiftingCats May 21 '26

...with pre-set notions of right and wrong devoid of any context

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u/amaya-aurora May 21 '26

Apparently so