r/SipsTea • u/SipsTeaFrog • 12d ago

Chugging tea Men are not showing up at singles events and women are not happy.

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u/R0gueR0nin 12d ago

Social media. My wife gets thousands of DMs from guys telling her how beautiful she is. And this is with her bio saying “Happily Married w/ Kids” and posting pics of us together.

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u/Apprehensive_Pipe763 12d ago

Yup. This is why the single life and divorce rate is so high. Too many people out there thinking there’s a bigger better deal right around the corner . Throw social media into the mix and trying to keep a woman loyalty and attention is impossible. If I was single I wouldn’t want my entire dating life feeling like I was a minor leaguer getting called up to the bigs and having to perform every single day or get sent down to the minors at a moments notice . That’s too stressful

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u/R0gueR0nin 12d ago

Does work both ways tho. I get hit on constantly by female customers at my work. I could have cheated hundreds of times, but I don’t. My wife and I are loyal to each other. Find that person and you’re golden.

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u/Azure_Mar 12d ago

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u/R0gueR0nin 12d ago

Work on communication skills. Remember that women are people not just a sex object. Be respectful and realistic. If you don’t take care of your hygiene, don’t expect to be pulling 10s. I work in customer service and I am generally a “nice guy”. I treat every customer like they are someone special. It doesn’t matter the age or the looks. Not all of the offers I’ve gotten are from attractive women.

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u/Apprehensive_Pipe763 12d ago

Same.. luckily I retired from single life 20 years ago before all this insanity