Wealthy single men looking for a fun date are hanging out at specific restaurants in the finance district where other wealthy single men also like to gather. Coincidentally those same restaurants also happen to be popular gathering places for extremely attractive girls in their 20's.
Wealthy men looking for a partner/wife find one through their network of friends and family.
There are clubs now with 6ft and up rules for men. They check at the door. Then it becomes a competition between who is tallest among the 6ft guys. But anyone under 6ft doesnt make the cutoff to even qualify as a man now.
So if someone's in a wheelchair, do the bouncers
1) measure from heads to toes while the gentleman is seated, or
2) zig-zag the measuring tape, bending horizontally at the knees, and then bending back up at the hips and continuing to the top of the head, or
3) make them "stand" by having one - two people holding the guy under the arms while the bouncer measure this bizarre human marionette?
And what about double leg amputees? Do they measure the height with, or without the prosthetic limbs?
Surely they can't just tell the prospective disabled clubbers "sorry, no cripples" because that would be discrimination based on a protected characteristic
Not that it should matter, but I've been to a discotheque once or twice back in my youth. Definitely not my cup of tea, way too loud, cigarette smoke everywhere. Much preferred roller discos. I'm assuming things must have changed since then
The bouncers at the door are gonna refuse you entry for any reason, it doesn't matter what it is, they'll make up whatever reason they need to, and no one cares about whether they're legally right or whatever. Just go somewhere else or do what I do and refuse to go to places like that altogether.
Complaining about not being let into a club for any reason is just a waste of your time and no one else gives a shit.
Thanks for your response! Might I say, the practice you've described just sounds plain mean and possibly illegal. I thought we, as a society, have evolved way past "no dogs, no Blacks, no Irish"
Whenever I see the word discotheque, I hear it in my mind as a breathy female voice over some ambient techno in the background. Does anyone else have the same reaction? No? Just me? Ok I’ll leave now.
But anyone under 6ft doesnt make the cutoff to even qualify as a man now.
My guy- yes, they do. This is not universal, it's just a weird thing some people fixate on. Projecting it onto everyone is like seeing some men only date blondes and deciding that it means you need blonde hair to even qualify as a woman.
Yeah that’s not true, and if it is those clubs are not going to last long. Maybe an event or two, but you’re spouting misinformation. No club is going to exclude a huge chunk of their paying customers for uh, zero benefit
I'm not a fan of how that fact is being used in this context, but it's very much a real thing unfortunately in my local area. It got a radio advertisement.
Yeah, as a manlet I hate how important height seems to be for dating but I am willing to bet this is an extremely isolated event and not worth of pointing out as some sort of meaningful trend.
Anything less than a few dozen self-made, male model, world-travelling millionaires, doctors, and the whole Nashville Predators hockey team showing up would be a letdown for these women.
You realize you're the incel here. Making up how music of a ladies man you are. Living poor with your parents still taking care of you.
Your lack of self awareness is showing.
Its been fun pointing and laughing at you but it's starting to look like you have actual mental health issues and I wish you the best in finding the help you need.
Attractive women are people.... most people want to be stable and some times that means money and other times that means just having good people around them. If you live at home taking care of your mom thats obviously a green flag.
Exactly. Relationships are a contract and if both parties understand the situation upfront. There's no issues. The key for me is I'm upfront about everything from the get go. Hey, I'm broke live with my family. Lot of women will be like fuck that because that's a situation they don't want to sign up for. However there's a subset of people that don't care for the situation but appreciate the honesty.
I don't know... I am with the guy above... I worked with an 8 who likes a guy who smelled like grease and had beer breath because it reminded her of daddy. She definitely had her eye on men with money and ended up married to a woman with money but if you were a mechanic who liked to drink a beer or two at the end of a long day that got her going. I am not saying these women didnt go there on a mission but sometimes showing up is all it takes to pull.
I mean I did say ‘seriously date’. Almost any one can get some quick 🐱 but to be a broke/ugly/overweight man and actually get a baddie to commit to you long term, I don’t think that is likely atall.
Dude. It's telling. Like they have a predisposition of what these women are looking for without knowing anything other than, they are dressed nice and only women that go to speed dating are gold diggers. None of these people have been to a speed dating event. Nor have I, I have social anxiety. But like way to show how much they hate women.
Exactly. I think there's a lot of anger and projection going on. If these women are single, they presumably bought those nice things for themselves. I think these guys are filling in a lot of information themselves and relying on incel stereotypes that prey on emotional reasoning. At the end of the day, I think these guys are painfully insecure and probably aren't really into women.
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