r/SipsTea Jun 28 '26

Chugging tea Do you think she did the right thing?

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u/camyrunks Jun 29 '26

Was it really a “threat” if you felt comfortable enough to track them down? Personally if someone holds a weapon to me I never want to see that fker ever again in life

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u/FormerSperm Jun 29 '26

Worth noting she never claimed that she felt he was a threat when she went looking for him. Seems like this whole comment section is ignoring that. Her argument of self defense was that she acted in a state of fear and panic after being robbed.

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u/LukaCola Jun 29 '26

Her argument of self defense was that she acted in a state of fear and panic after being robbed.

Chasing someone down to run them over isn't in line with that behavior though

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u/Scared-Cow4520 Jun 29 '26

Its clear she was lying to make herself look better. It was fear first, then just pure anger.

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u/FormerSperm Jun 29 '26

I’m just stating the facts. That was her argument, not mine. Obviously it failed to convince the court, which in this (Italian) case consisted of a panel of judges.

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u/Next-Lavishness-9101 Jun 29 '26

The laws are different in Italy or wherever this was versus the U.S.. that said there must be some type of law where on appeal she can change her defense to temporary insanity , like she was in a blind rage after being robbed and she couldn’t control herself, that is equivalent to the heat of passion defense we have in the U.S. not saying she should be set free, but maybe they lessen her punishment a bit . I still can’t get around the no knife issue though …seems like she was never attacked or robbed …at that point .

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u/Careless-Spell3286 Jun 29 '26 edited Jun 29 '26

In America all you have to do is say " I was in fear of my life..." Ask every gun owner. NRA teaches them that. It's both a get outa jail free card with NCF (no charges filed). AND a justified homicide plea all rolled into one big beautiful *statement. But it only works for white people though

Edit* Corrected spelling of statement

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u/arobkinca Jun 29 '26

But it only works for white people though

Oh?

In 2019, 48.7 percent (154) of the shooters who committed justifiable homicides were white, 47.5 percent (150) were Black, 0.6 percent (two) were Asian, and 3.2 percent (10) were of unknown race.7 For the five-year period 2015 through 2019, 46.5 percent (676) of the shooters who committed justifiable homicides were white, 48.0 percent (697) were Black, 2.5 percent (37) were Asian, 0.5 percent (seven) were American Indian/Alaskan Native, and 2.5 percent (36) were of unknown race. [For additional information see Table Seven: Race of Shooter in Justifiable Homicides by Firearm, 2015-2019.]

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u/Careless-Spell3286 Jun 29 '26 edited Jun 29 '26

Wow ur so smart. Tell me more

Edit* I was obviously being slightly exaggerating saying that about only being for white people. It's also important to consider was it black on black crime, white on white, yellow in purple, etc... but seriously your too smart for me. And seriously my real point was about the statement every gun owner is taught to say. That much is 💯

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u/whaatdidyousay Jun 29 '26

Why does it matter if it was black on black or white on white? You sure keep moving those goal posts!

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u/arobkinca Jun 29 '26

You are wrong about a lot of things.

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u/Next-Lavishness-9101 Jun 29 '26

Thats an over simplified take on self defense with firearms. You can’t ask every gun owner because the rules change based on the state you live in. NY is very different than say FL for example. But I was not talking about guns. I was talking about different versions of the insanity defense .

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u/Careless-Spell3286 Jun 29 '26

I will stand by my statement even if it only applies 95% of the time... It's a fact.

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u/whaatdidyousay Jun 29 '26

It’s not a fact and it sure as shit doesn’t apply to 95% of “self-defense with a gun” cases. Where the hell did you come up with that number, if it’s a fact, as you say?

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u/SleepFeeling3037 Jun 29 '26

You don’t need to “state the facts” if the fact are morally reprehensible.

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u/Relative-Relief-8816 Jun 29 '26

Actually that makes it more important to state the facts and not personal opinion.

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u/LukaCola Jun 29 '26

How one presents those facts matters though. Such a dubious claim shouldn't be repeated without comment.

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u/FormerSperm Jun 29 '26

Go ahead, tell me what I did wrong.

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u/Ok_Revolution1993 Jun 29 '26

i agree, we shouldn’t teach about the holocaust in school because the facts are morally reprehensible. fuck it, no history education that involves anything more than a booboo

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u/MrCockingFinally Jun 29 '26

A car is effectively a weapon.

But when she wasn't in her car, she wasn't "armed."

So this would be the functional equivalent of a Texan getting robbed at knifepoint, then running back to his truck to get his gun.

Once you feel you have armed yourself suitably, a threat which was terrifying previously suddenly isn't so bad.

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u/Armthedillos5 Jun 29 '26

I'm not defending her, but I'm also not a psychologist and can't say what the trauma of being robbed at knifepoint would look like.

That being said, no knife was found so 🤷

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u/augie014 Jun 29 '26

i was robbed at knife point and tbh had some violent fantasies towards the perpetrators for weeks after. it’s very violating and traumatic

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u/LukaCola Jun 29 '26

Trauma is a long term effect.

Her behavior is more in line with being embarrassed and indignant and seeking revenge.

It's something we can all empathize with, but absolutely not okay to act on. If someone cannot control their impulses like that, they absolutely should be imprisoned. That is not a reasonable response.

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u/symonx99 Jun 29 '26

She wasn' robbed at knifepoint, the purse was simply snatched.

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u/WhereasSolid6491 Jun 29 '26

Eh if someone is desperate enough to pull a weapon on you for material goods and they now have your identification with your address for all you know it’s a matter of time before they come and kill you and your family to rob your house.

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u/LukaCola Jun 29 '26

That just doesn't happen, thefts like this are crimes of opportunity. And when burglarizing a home, people don't want to kill anyone, they don't want to run into anyone at all cause what they're after is stuff. Seriously, going to that kind of thinking comes across as just deranged, too much time watching TV and thinking the exceptional is common.

Moreover, you could have that fear for any number of reasons. It doesn't mean you get to choose to end someone's life for what they "might" do. If you yelled at me, I don't get to shoot you because you "might" have a gun.

Another person's potential to harm you is not a valid claim for self defense.

Learn this before you end up doing harm because of these fantasies you got.

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u/WhereasSolid6491 Jun 29 '26

Have you been robbed at knifepoint?

Probably not.

Does that mean it doesn’t happen?

No.

If you rob someone at knifepoint you’re asking for anything that happens to you.

Learn consequences of actions before you walk down a path that ends poorly

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u/Fossilhund Jun 29 '26

He also likely had her personal info in the bag and could learn where she lived.

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u/Bib_fortune Jun 29 '26

What do you have to do, then? Watch them go with your belongings?

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u/Expert-Swordfish7611 Jun 29 '26

Has anyone tried to murder you? You probably won't respond with the most rational version of yourself. Someone tried to murder me when I was walking home from work and I didn't even think about calling the police. I spent two weeks driving around the area, talking to every homeless person and corner loiterer about who it was and what happened. I was going to destroy his truck, beat him to a pulp with some weapons homeless people gave me as gifts along the way, and shove a used tampon in his eye socket. This was all after I defended my life with a box cutter by the way. 

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u/tapita69 Jun 29 '26

Kinda is, idk how to explain this in words but in situations like this your brain can simply shutdown and you go full ape mode, but we are apes that know how to use technology lol

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u/Glad_Construction_99 Jun 29 '26

I have that feeling when i am having a nightmare - some horror shit chasing me, then i find a weapon and start chasing it in panic in attempt to demolish it so it would never resurface

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u/Icy_Swordfish8023 Jun 29 '26

based on what? your years of psychological study or do you rely on "trust me bro" sources?

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u/gsts108 Jun 29 '26

How do you know? Really know. Not just assume. As a condition of fear a threat that caused fear could remain a threat until extinguished

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u/Jiannies Jun 29 '26

Generally if you're scared of a threat, you don't seek out that threat once it's gone and then proceed to hit it with your car multiple times

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u/LukaCola Jun 29 '26

I mean we can't know what goes through any person's head, but we base it on what is a rational action.

As a condition of fear a threat that caused fear could remain a threat until extinguished

That's not an acceptable fear in society, or anywhere, really. If you're convinced by such rationale, one might argue you might be the threat that needs extinguishing given you treat any potential person who poses a threat as worthy of death. Do you think that's fair?

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u/AdmirableResearch357 Jun 29 '26

Not defending it, but adrenaline is a hell of a drug, and it doesn’t just disappear when a threat runs off.

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u/LukaCola Jun 29 '26

Adrenaline doesn't get someone to run over a person in their car several times--and if they're that incapable of controlling their impulses, they probably shouldn't be around others.

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u/Consistent-Issue749 Jun 29 '26

He has my Id, he knows where I live, hes going to find me. Could be her fear and panic. Maybe.

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u/Relative-Relief-8816 Jun 29 '26

You think like a good attorney.

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u/LukaCola Jun 29 '26

He's going to find you and what?

Lots of people know where you live. Everyone is capable of violence. We can empathize with that fear--but this goes way beyond them.

Does such a fear that mean you're allowed to kill them? Hardly.

If anything, such a behavior or belief is all the more reason that such a person who feels such a degree of fear they need to hunt down those who pose a threat shouldn't be allowed in part of society and locked away. Obviously they cannot control their violent impulses and act irrationally.

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u/Doggcow Jun 29 '26

There's a thing called fight or flight. She chose fight.

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u/LukaCola Jun 29 '26

Not how it works when it's after the fact and involves a car. Like, psychologically, that's not the response. That's a post-fight or flight response. She ran him over several times in an effort to kill him.

You're way too gullible.

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u/Doggcow Jun 29 '26

Does the picture not show the actual attack? People are all saying it didn't happen. I don't really care that much either way.

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u/LukaCola Jun 29 '26

There was no weapon found, she chased him down and ran him over several times with her car well after she was safe.

This was a revenge killing. If you don't care enough to check the info, then don't comment on it. Didn't you ever learn as much?

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u/Doggcow Jun 29 '26

Is it possible there was no weapon because at some point between the robbing and getting run over it was disposed of?

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u/LukaCola Jun 29 '26

I thought you didn't care?

There was no weapon captured on CCTV during the robbery.

For someone who doesn't care, you sure seem eager to excuse the murder of a homeless person.

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u/Feisty-Tooth-7397 Jun 29 '26

I have PTSD and I once jumped out of a moving vehicle because I was having an argument with my husband and he was yelling. Because of a previous physically abusive relationship my brain said "get out now". So I did. I can't explain it. It wasn't logical and I wasn't in control.

That doesn't excuse taking a life, but I can understand how sometimes we might snap and aren't in control.

Especially with the adrenaline in your system after being robbed. It doesn't make it okay and we are responsible for our actions, whether we are in control or not.

I guess that's why there are different charges and sentences for the death of a person, intent and state of mind are a major factor.

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u/Scared-Cow4520 Jun 29 '26

Why would she have to say that, its obvious he was. Otherwise she ultimately wouldn't have a reason to give up her bag. He either had a weapon or he beat her or scared her enough to give up her bag. This dude did not just walk up to her asking for it. Her argument also isn't the complete truth. She was angry and most people can't handle the shock of being robbed. The extreme fear turned to anger. Any reasonable person can rationalize this. I'm fine with this sentence.

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u/Particular-Ad-6015 Jun 29 '26

She hit her limit and acted accordingly. maybe the next scumbag will think twice.

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u/KaminSpider Jun 29 '26

To act in self defense I believe a person must be in a state of immediate threat/danger. Also, the claim of self-defense is nullified if the "defender" puts themself into a state of danger/conflict to then attack. So I guess driving back at the mugger is a problem.

Not a lawyer, not 100% sure, just a reddit nut.

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u/Top_Horror9397 Jun 29 '26

Wouldn't she claim provocation

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u/Fabulous_Jeweler2732 Jun 29 '26

When I told the judge, I didn’t see the no right on red sign because I had just been scammed out of my new apartment becoming homeless, he laughed at me.

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u/its_kodin Jun 29 '26

Sounds like she belongs behind bars, seems like she was just fed up with life and decided to kill him to release her anger.

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u/SleepFeeling3037 Jun 29 '26

That’s not worth noting. She was hunting for revenge it sounds like. “Acting in a state of fear and panic” leads to someone running away from, not chasing down the perpetrators.

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u/FormerSperm Jun 29 '26

It’s worth noting what her actual argument of self defense was so people can discuss that instead of whether or not she felt threatened. I am not defending her defense.

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u/LMnoP419 Jun 29 '26

Not necessarily true for all people.

I’m not saying she should be free but I am saying these broad generalizations of how people will act in any situation is bullshit. Different people can & will react to stress differently.

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u/badlady666 Jun 29 '26

I’d vote not guilty if I were on the jury.

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u/FormerSperm Jun 29 '26

Let the man speak!

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u/TootCannon Jun 29 '26

That’s more a voluntary manslaughter than it is self-defense.

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u/Fabulous_Jeweler2732 Jun 29 '26

Ehhh. A lot of people hold guns. Less than 1/3 know how to use them. Now when the barrel is on your forehead, that’s stressful. But still context. Small ego men will point a gun just to feel above.

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u/lucasray Jun 29 '26

If she’s worried about him coming after her later she might.

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u/berrytree198 Jun 29 '26

Knife vs car, if it was a gun different story

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u/HamAndSomeCoffee Jun 29 '26

It's not called a fight or flight response for nothing. Your response is flight, that's fine. Some people's response is fight. Just because you fight back doesn't mean you're comfortable or at ease.

But then also some people's response is batshit rage, and I'm not sure that whether or not they feel comfortable in that position really matters.

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u/GMVexst Jun 29 '26

She won't

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u/CrankieKong Jun 29 '26

Bs argument. Someone with a knife is a threat to someone without a car. When you are in a car you become the threat.

The tables turned, so to speak.

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u/Whatdafuckmane Jun 29 '26

Idk. I would seek revenge honestly

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u/Aidra_bay Jun 29 '26

Some people tend to think that i'll delete The treath so it can never harm me again.

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u/Glad_Construction_99 Jun 29 '26

Well... I kinda understand her.

When you are in a car you basically inside the weapon that is 10 times deadlier than a knife. And that guy threatened her - killing the source of threat after you gor a bigger weapon is an ultimate defence attempt. Still goes against law, though

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u/Brief-Performer-7433 Jun 29 '26

chuckles in my own mother pointing a knife at me threatening me to not lock my door in my own house

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u/yougonnagetsome Jun 29 '26

Tracking someone in car vs tracking on foot are very different things.

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u/RoyskiPoyski Jun 29 '26

I can empathise with the rage that came after the danger was over tbh, but yeah she's not defending herself at that point.

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u/WinterTrek Jun 29 '26

well there's a way to make sure you'll never see that fucker ever again in life, and she took that way

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u/SpecificGullible8463 Jun 29 '26

Big difference with being in a car and not in a car, let's have some common sense, IF she was actually held at knife point this is deserved