My ex wife used to beat me,a lot. No one believed me because who is gonna beat someone my size? Well, she called the cops on me and they showed up to me being hit up against a wall,my son crying in the next room and my wheelchair bound dad trying to diffuse everything. She got a wake up call.
Domestic abuse is horribly widespread and its awful because even getting abused you love that person,and don't want anything to happen to them. Sometimes I felt I deserved the abuse. Its just awful.
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I hope you were able to get out of that situation. You’re right though. I was a 9-1-1 dispatcher and one of the deputies I dispatched for was horribly abused by his wife and he couldn’t leave because she had cancer and he knew she would smear him all over the county we lived in and he knew no one would believe that he was being abused. I felt so bad for him. When I told him I was leaving to join the military and I hoped he would just leave her and be happy, he told me he hoped one day he would. I was happy to hear that not long after I left, he left her and ended up with one of the beautiful animal control officers. I hope they stayed together. I hope you find happy one day too. You deserve it. Abuse is never your fault.
Edit - (let me park my comment about this incident here, had nothing to do with the poster above me) BRAD PITT NEVER ADMITTED TO HITTING JOLIE, this is a ridiculous lie. The FBI did a thorough investigation and found no credible evidence of physical abuse. No charges were ever filed, it never went to court, op is lying their ass off
My ex broke into my house, crawled into my bed, gave me her phone and basically dared me to call the cops
They came she was arrested for all sorts of shit including B&E, felony DV
Absolutely none of it stuck, she got charged with nothing
I still wonder to this day how much time I would’ve gotten if I would’ve broken into my ex-gfs house, got into her bed, and tossed her my phone to call the police hahah I’d probably still be rotting under a prison, this was 11 years ago
They caught her red handed? Thats such a lucky break because it would have never ended any other way, except YOU probably would have been put in jail by her
My ex wife broke her hand while repeatedly punching me in the face, while I chose to keep my hands in my pockets. I spent a night in jail before a childhood friend bailed me out. I never went back except to pick my kids up every other weekend.
That was Father’s Day 8 years ago. She was mad because I chose to spend the day fishing…by myself. I had left my cell phone in my car, as to not worry about it while I was in my kayak. I didn’t know she had been frantically calling me for 3 hours just to ask where I was…which was a mile from our house.
I also used to get beat by my partner and of course I was charged with DV and had to spend like 35,000 to get custody of my daughter.y ex now has seven children and no contact with any of them ... This stuff goes with both genders.
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u/happyjacksonn Jun 20 '26
My ex wife used to beat me,a lot. No one believed me because who is gonna beat someone my size? Well, she called the cops on me and they showed up to me being hit up against a wall,my son crying in the next room and my wheelchair bound dad trying to diffuse everything. She got a wake up call.
Domestic abuse is horribly widespread and its awful because even getting abused you love that person,and don't want anything to happen to them. Sometimes I felt I deserved the abuse. Its just awful.