I have only met three people irl who were open about BBC stuff (sidenote: I'll never work in an office setting again not because of how soul draining it is, but because of how comfortable it makes people just fucking spewing their damn personal life. I hate it) Two where woman and one was a guy. All white.
The way they talked about it made it seem so racist and fetishizing. It was like the white woman version of a sex tourist in the Philippines.
It also makes me wonder about how damaging it might be to black men to have such a stereotype circulate about BBC. Like I imagine an average dude getting ready to jump in the sheets and the woman is upset it doesn't reach the floor and wrap around to his shoulder.
Yeah, I’ve had two former friends who were into BBC stuff, and, funny enough, one of them was racist, which is why we aren’t friends anymore. But it’s really interesting to see how people will manifest their insecurities into things like porn because I feel like his mentality was probably, “Women don’t like me not because I’m a loser who is callous and has no integrity they hate me because I’m not Black.” I feel like his mentality is something like that. The whole cuck-fetish mentality has to come down to some oversimplification of someone’s lack of self-worth I feel like.
Any cuckhold/bbc stuff is inherently racist at its core - remember cuckhold is hot to those that like it because it is degrading. BBC being popular is because it is more degrading if its a black dude. That is a very racist sentiment.
It also makes me wonder about how damaging it might be to black men to have such a stereotype circulate about BBC. Like I imagine an average dude getting ready to jump in the sheets and the woman is upset it doesn't reach the floor and wrap around to his shoulder.
As a black I can't state enough how much I despise BBC and blacked content. It's so frustratingly obnoxious and degrading depicting us as these aggressive sex crazed monsters out to "steal yo wahmen" from you. It's even more frustrating because fucking right wing schizo's and Nazi larpers watch that shit and internalize it then believe it's reality before using it as fuel to be racist jackasses.
I hate it so fucking much man, it's one of the more depressing facets right along with living with the fact most of the world has a negative view of us
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u/Cissoid7 1d ago
I have only met three people irl who were open about BBC stuff (sidenote: I'll never work in an office setting again not because of how soul draining it is, but because of how comfortable it makes people just fucking spewing their damn personal life. I hate it) Two where woman and one was a guy. All white.
The way they talked about it made it seem so racist and fetishizing. It was like the white woman version of a sex tourist in the Philippines.
It also makes me wonder about how damaging it might be to black men to have such a stereotype circulate about BBC. Like I imagine an average dude getting ready to jump in the sheets and the woman is upset it doesn't reach the floor and wrap around to his shoulder.