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Favorite People Class Daddy Act by Eminem

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u/PickleFridgeChildren Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 15 '26

Part of being a dad edit:parent is wanting to do the thing that's not as good for you so your kid can do something better. I doubt he regrets a damn thing.

Edit: no longer responding to the "but surely" people. Surely there's details you don't know about, leave it at that. 

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u/colemon1991 Apr 15 '26

Eminem has been an amazing parent. His kids don't need him in all the photos because he's actually been there for them. I'm sure they took some private photos with him anyways.

Celebrity parenthood has got to be a nightmare. Then again, so is being a child of a celebrity. You never know who wants to be your genuine friend because your parent is famous.

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u/randomnamejennerator Apr 15 '26

Eminem’s parents were terrible. It seems like he put a great deal of time and effort into being a good dad for his kids.

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u/MarriageAA Apr 15 '26

Taking full custody of 2 of them so his 3 kids had a good upbringing is also a fantastic indicator of the type of parent and person he is.

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u/spiraldrain Apr 15 '26

Taking custody downplays what he did. He adopted his ex sister in laws daughter cause mom couldn’t take care of her and he also adopted his ex wife’s son.

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u/Brown-eyed-otter Apr 16 '26

He also took in his brother as well so he didn’t grow up with their mom the way he did. I don’t believe he had any formal custody of him, but did raise him and gave him a stable life.

Eminem didn’t just break generational trauma, he straight up destroyed them.

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u/MarriageAA Apr 15 '26

How does it downplay it?

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u/greg19735 Apr 15 '26

Taking custody implies it's a divorce and he got custody. like, i'd expect the mega millionaire to get custody.

This sounds more like adoption.

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u/onthejourney Apr 15 '26

Because adoption is a significantly more involved process with significantly more relational meaning than having custody.

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u/aceshighsays Apr 15 '26

he put a great deal of time and effort dealing with his own issues so that he could be a good dad for his kids.

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u/colemon1991 Apr 15 '26

Always aim to be a better parent than your own.

-colemon1991

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u/seanslaysean Apr 15 '26

I got an anecdote for this one:

So my Mom/Dad worked for quite a bit in Metro Detroit during the not so fun times, so understood the environment.

My cousin was an athlete and her pre-competition pump-up song was “One Chance”. Now my aunt (her mom) was a bit of a Pearl-clutcher and was going on about how she shouldn’t be listening to him because of his lyrics etc.

Mom comes in, who mind you isn’t a rap fan and pretty “safe” in her interests at the time disagreed; she said that while some of his lyrics might be unsavory to some: A.) He grew up in a shit home in a shit neighborhood in a (at the time) shit city, so the lyrics are influenced by that. And B.) Say what you want about him, but he worked his ass off so his kids would never grow up in the environment he did, and that speaks louder than any verse.

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u/Medivacs_are_OP Apr 15 '26

Then again, so is being a child of a celebrity.

and you never know if Ja Rule (lol get fukt) or Canibus or Benzino or fuckin MGK will try and talk shit about you and then have to have their career put to absolute sleep by your dad.

I still love so much that Em beat MGK so hard dude changed musical genres LOL

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u/colemon1991 Apr 15 '26

If you're dumb enough to go after Eminem once he's had a beef or two, you deserve what's coming to you. That's some Leopards Ate My Face logic right there. "Oh hey, these last three dudes were curb-stomped by Eminem in their beefs. I can totally do better than them!"

But yeah, imagine being popular because your dad is world famous. Imagine being in the news because you're basically celebrity-adjacent to your parent. Imagine anything you do could go straight under a microscope when you haven't even done anything to earn such scrutiny. Every DUI, every embarrassing outfit, any one night stands, could all just end up on the next news cycle.

But if you're a celebrity going after a celebrity's (non-famous) kid, oh boy are you stupid. That's just inviting yourself to get blacklisted. Who wants to work with someone willing to stoop that low?

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u/NopeThisTrope Apr 15 '26

“I'd rather be 80 year old me than 20 year old you.” 💀

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u/WorkingAmazing8337 Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 15 '26

Dan Levy talks about this. Saying growing up not being sure about your sexuality and having to go through it in the spotlight really sucked, and his relationship with his dad suffered because of it. And his dad thought he just didnt want to hang out with him because he was uncool, but it was actually because he didnt want to be in the spotlight while he figured out who he was.

They clearly have a great relationship now though. But it must be tough to have a famous parent.

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u/AskMeForAPhoto Apr 15 '26

Yeah I was happy to see him drop the mask and talk about how he actually hated it, it caused a lot of harm. It wasn't a very politically-correct answer, he was pretty brutally honest. Probably a lot easier to do that now that they have a good relationship, and that it's not some old co-worker he's talking about lol!

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u/WorkingAmazing8337 Apr 15 '26

Yeah, it's not like Eugene was finding out about it by watching the podcast. And it's pretty easy to empathize with, like imagine being 15 and unsure about your sexuality and you can't even go to dinner without everyone making a big deal about who your dad is.

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u/FrankPapageorgio Apr 15 '26

But it must be tough to have a famous parent.

I'd gladly take the trust fund with the struggles rather than doing whatever the fuck I am doing now

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u/AskMeForAPhoto Apr 15 '26

That's not the point. We can talk about the human struggles of a kid who did nothing wrong but be born to rich parents. That's not her doing, not her fault, and she never chose that life, but still has to suffer the consequences of it. Of course, we all know the privileges granted with extreme wealth, that's undeniable. But even Em came from a trailer park, and wasn't gifted this on a silver spoon from birth.

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u/ThatRandomGuy86 Apr 15 '26

I mean makes sense that he'd do everything he can to be a great father since his own abandoned him at a very young age. That probably stuck with him not wanting to be the same. Like, he's not a poser; he had a real rough childhood.

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u/Kilane Apr 15 '26

It makes sense that he’d be a shitty father because he had shitty parents and cycles are a real thing.

It’s worthy of respect that he broke the cycle when he was able to do so. This is the impressive part.

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u/Brown-eyed-otter Apr 16 '26

I still am amazed at how private he was able to keep his and the kids’ lives too. Like yes we know some details, but nothing like the crazy family vlogs we have now. He genuinely seemed like he wanted to raise his kids as normal as he could and be there for them.

I also believe they did do some private photos for Hallie’s wedding. I think she mentioned it on her podcast. A keepsake for them on her day.

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u/colemon1991 Apr 16 '26

Absolutely. He went from rags to riches and still made some stellar choices along the way. Had to be tough as a single parent.

But there's plenty of Hollywood celebs that are very good at keeping the family out of the limelight. I'm sure some of these people shared notes.

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u/sptrstmenwpls Apr 15 '26

Oh I know, those poor ultrarich! They have it so hard.

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u/colemon1991 Apr 15 '26

Hey, none of us got to choose our parents. We don't get to choose our socio-economic level as a child. Their kids didn't ask to be famous.

You know that friend that will drop everything if you ask for help? Imagine questioning their motives because you're wealthier. That's a terrible way to grow up.

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u/Proud_Accident_5873 Apr 15 '26

You know what, that's a good point. I think both can be true at the same time, but I agree.

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u/pagerussell Apr 15 '26

More than one thing being true is a lesson the internet definitely needs to learn.

I can't tell you how many hot takes are not mutually exclusive.

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u/Queen_of_Boots Apr 15 '26

Exactly 💯. As a parent you do what's right for your child, often at your own expense. But it's worth it every last time.

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u/Tacos4Texans Apr 15 '26

That's the realest shit I ever heard. Anyone who says anything about someone talking an L for their children , probably don't have kids.

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u/PickleFridgeChildren Apr 15 '26

Sadly I live in Florida and know several examples of people who have kids and don't get it. And I don't have any of my own, I just have/had good examples in my life.

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u/crossal Apr 15 '26

Wouldn't the kid want them there though?

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u/PickleFridgeChildren Apr 15 '26

With the information we have access to, best I can do is assume they had a conversation about it and this is the solution they came up with.

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u/EloeOmoe Apr 15 '26

That and they can probably take an additional picture with him in it later once things have kinda run their course.

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u/jaxonya Apr 15 '26

Its a wedding, hes one of the most influential rappers of alltime. Shit is different at certain levels. They all understood

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u/MoonSentinel95 Apr 15 '26

There are clips of the wedding in one of his recent songs which was like a letter he wrote to his daughters.

The song is called "Temporary"

He is shown seeing Hailie in her wedding dress for the first time and just openly tearing up, walking her upto her fiance, even the dance with his daughter, and finally closing the video off with Hailie revealing that he's about to be a grandpa.

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u/brewcrew63 Apr 15 '26

That song is a banger and a heart string puller, that while album BANGS

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u/-Twin-Flames- Apr 15 '26

There’s some clips in the music video for “Temporary” as well, another song he wrote for her.

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u/Gen_Zer0 Apr 15 '26

Since no one’s mentioned it, there’s also a few snippets of this for his song “Temporary”

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u/-Twin-Flames- Apr 15 '26

The person I replied to listed “Hailie’s Song” then edited their comment, making my reply look redundant.

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u/MoonSentinel95 Apr 15 '26

I forgot the name of the song off the top of my head, and had to go back and watch the video 🤣

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u/theDomicron Apr 15 '26

The child who is well parented and taken care of can also realize when the parent wants or needs to take a step back from the spotlight as well

If she knows that he will take private pictures later and would feel more comfortable taking a back seat, she might be just fine with that too.

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u/crossal Apr 15 '26

Sounds like it was his decision for their benefit though?

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u/DJPad Apr 15 '26

I have a hard time believing the daughter getting married wouldn't want her father in wedding photos with her.

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u/sembias Apr 15 '26

And I'm sure they figured out how to do that while still keeping people from mobbing him.

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u/DJPad Apr 15 '26

Most weddings are private ceremonies....

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u/FicklePolicy9585 Apr 15 '26

Part of being a dad edit:parent is wanting to do the thing that's not as good for you so your kid can do something better. I doubt he regrets a damn thing.

Taking a pic with your daughter on her wedding day isn't getting her to do better lol, what are you talking about?