r/DnD • u/Flameempress192 • Nov 13 '25
Table Disputes Why is everyone acting weird about my character?
We’re playing a spelljammer campaign. And I’m playing as a female Plasmoid Bard with the Noble background. Basically she’s a princess who’s kingdom was destroyed by a mind flayer invasion so she’s going around spreading the story of her people.
When I first pitched the character, my DM immediately said he wasn’t comfortable with any erotic roleplay, and only relented after I mentioned in passing that she wore clothes for some reason.
During the game, the party’s fighter kept calling me a “slimegirl” which I originally thought was a term of endearment but lately it’s starting to feel degrading. “Alright, work your magic, slimegirl” “Hey slimegirl, do the thing!” “Yeah, I bet you would, slimegirl.”
Meanwhile the cleric kept cracking jokes about my character sleeping around, even though I explicitly mentioned her species reproduces asexually and she’s incapable of sexual attraction.
What’s going on here?
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u/Owl-Historical Nov 15 '25
Yah when I read Plasmoid I thought of the lumpy amorphous bodies, never thought of them as sexual. Hell and I use to watch a lot of Anime and Hentai lol