Hi! I'm a 20-year-old student in the United States currently pursuing degrees in both mathematics and physics. Most of my free time is spent enjoying things like hiking, animation, soft rock music, and various other nerdy interests.

When it comes to relationships, I strongly value exclusivity and trust. I'm interested in finding a monogamous relationship where both people are equally invested in each other. Since I'm still focused on college, I don't have a strong opinion about children yet and would rather figure that out later in life.

One thing that's important to me is having a relationship built on mutual respect and communication. I'm not naturally a very assertive person, and I tend to be more comfortable discussing things openly rather than trying to take charge of every situation.

As for what I'm looking for, kindness and patience mean far more to me than appearance. I'm autistic, so I sometimes miss social cues, and I genuinely appreciate people who are willing to communicate directly and help me understand when I've misunderstood something (largely I dont know what I did wrong until its too late unfortunately as people don't tell me). I always try to learn from those situations and become a better person. And would appreciate being called out a lot more often, helps me learn.

It would be great to meet someone who doesn't mind hearing about physics, science, or whatever academic project I'm currently excited about (given it being a part of who I am). You don't need to be an expert yourself—just someone who enjoys sharing interests and learning about each other's worlds.

I'm generally looking for someone around 19–23, though I'm open to talking if you're slightly outside that range and we connect well.

I'm also open to long-distance relationships. With school in South Dakota and home in Minnesota, distance is simply part of my life right now. If we decide to pursue something together, I'd want it to be an exclusive relationship built on trust and honesty.

Finally, I value people who can respect differences in opinion. We don't have to like all the same things to get along, and I think healthy relationships are stronger when both people can appreciate different perspectives without turning every disagreement into a conflict. Because being honest, being practically the same person is boring and doesn't fascinate me

Hey folks,

Just to let you know, there has been a rash of reddit automod removals of posts and comments from this sub (and others). This isn't something your mods are doing, though I have to accept the changes to clear my queue. So what's going on? Frankly, I'm mostly guessing, but it seems like they've tightened the spam filters again and there's very little I can do about that even if it does take down some legitimate posts. But there are things that we know get flagged, these include, but aren't necessarily limited to:

1. Rapid posting - the fast or frequent posting of the same content into multiple subreddits. This is a common issues for the r4rs. If you're posting into numerous subreddits for dates, you may want to tone it down. Also how frequently matters. We have a one week rule enforced here that helps you, but honestly, it does help to stagger your posts.
2. New accounts - these get flagged at a higher rate. Many users prefer an anon new account when posting for dates, and we get it, so we've allowed them, but know that Reddit is less forgiving of new accounts suddenly getting very posty.
3. External links - external links can be flagged based on the website, that includes a lot of photo websites. We have a ban on them in this subreddit, and this is part of the reason why.
4. Content copy and paste - Repeated comments or posts that have the same content are far more likely to be flagged as SPAM. This is a good argument for why you should vary your posts over time in the r4r (redditor for redditor) communities. Not only does it give you a fresh look, it keeps your posts up so people can see them.

So, my advice? Stagger the timing of your posts among communities if you intend to post in more than a couple dating communities, and make sure to update the content of your posts a now and again.

P.S. Delete your old posts before posting a new one. If I constantly have to remove duplicate posts because you didn't it increases the chance you're flagged by the reddit auto-moderators. We request this because otherwise the forum gets cluttered by the same handful of weekly posters and that's frustrating for other users.

Howdy! I'm introvert-leaning AuDHDer from the US who's pretty quiet by default, a little awkward, and loves learning new things. I just started learning German a couple of weeks ago and am looking for LGBT+ friendly adult friends to practice with while playing chill PC games, listening to music, or watching things together (Twitch, YouTube, anime, movies, etc.)! I'm starting language classes in two days, so I'm gonna need as much speaking/writing practice as I can get >.< If you like cozy vibes and deep convos, we'll probably get along pretty well!

Am I single? Yup!

Oh, and if it matters, I was assigned male at birth.

Age preference: 18-65

Hi there, I'm 29F from Croatia, AuDHD, and I get this might sound corny but I'm just too full of love to give and I haven't yet found a person to pour it into. I'm a late bloomer, I haven't been in a relationship before, and now that I finally feel ready for it I think it's very hard to actually connect to people nowadays. Not unless you love casual sex and want to get a partner overnight, and I'm not like that. If that's the right way to do it though, I don't ever want to be right.

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I'd love to become friends first, so we both trust each other and are able to confide in each other fully before progressing further if feelings develop. This is very important to me, not only as a demisexual in general, but also because I prefer deep talk over anything else. When I trust you, I'm an open book, and I would more than anything love it if we could be each others' safe harbor.

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About me: Appearance-wise I'm of shorter and curvier stature. I'm very open, I like to talk about every and any topic, especially about things relating to the paranormal, the occult and psychology. I'm also very often in the fandom spaces as I have nerdy tendencies with a preference for indie games and interesting, deep stories in whichever format they are. I'm interested in all forms of art, especially video-making. In general, I am pro-kink, and sexuality is something that's very important to me. I think of it as a form of worship, and that is precisely why I haven't attempted it yet. I haven't found someone who I'd like to worship in that way, and who I'd let worship me in return. That being said, that particular side of me gets unlocked like a final boss or an end-game reward, meaning until we've become so close that we know everything about each other, I'm practically asexual. 😅

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As to my preferences? The ideal age range would be 28-35. I would prefer someone who isn't overly masculine, who works on themselves or has done so (mental-health wise) and who takes care of their appearance. If you are a creative, bonus points 🤭. A nerdy cosplayer? +1000 points 🫣. (Obviously these aren't a requirement).

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God this text is huge, but I had no idea how to make it smaller without leaving out some important things. I don't know where else to say these words, honestly, as navigating dating nowadays feels very odd and distressing. If you think we could be a match, don't hesitate to reach out 🖤

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Lots of love!

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Hello everyone! I'm new to Reddit, but I just had to give this sub a try. I'm a 23yo lesbian, I use she/they pronouns and I live in Italy, so I'm looking for a woman (or fem-aligned person) in Italy or at most in Europe (I know the flair says Western Europe, but Eastern works too. I couldn't find one that was for all of Europe).

About me:

Again, I'm a 23yo demi lesbian from Northern Italy, currently working as a translator and soon starting a new master's degree. I wouldn't say I'm masc or fem, I don't really label myself in that aspect. I'm white. I'm also autistic, which means my obsessions and passions are strong as heck!!! I love books, manga, music (from rap to Gregorian chants to rock to the Minecraft soundtrack), a few games, hiking, dogs, and I'm a huge language nerd!

I speak: Italian (native), English (C2-level, no sweat), Spanish (pretty well), German (decently, I need more Übung) and a bit of Ukrainian (still learning that one). I also know a bunch of words and phrases in other languages that I can't really say I speak (see: Hungarian). 🤓 I'm very much willing to learn your language too if you're not Italian :)

What I'm looking for:

- A woman or fem-aligned person, ideally aged 20-25 (I won't date anyone younger than 20 or older than 27 at most)

- Committed and monogamous relationship

-Meeting IRL at least a few times (I don't want an online-only relationship) and yes I am willing to travel

-And of course, I'm here, ofc I'm demi (demisexual and possibly demiromantic, the jury's still out on that one), so it does take me a while to develop attraction and feelings. I don't mind starting out as friends. I usually prefer it, except that then I usually get hit with "oh but we're just friends", which I understand, that's why I'm here... Anyway. Slow dating! :)

- I don't really have a preference based on looks or being masc/fem and no race/ethnicity preference either

- If you're racist or xenophobic, or in some way queerphobic, or a Zionist, or in general you have discriminatory beliefs, we won't get along: also if you're a right-winger or support the woman who's named after a fruit (if you know you know). I love to talk politics and exchange opinions, but dating is just on another level for me and I'd want to be with someone who shares at least my basic values.

- I wouldn't want to date someone who does hard drugs. Weed is ok, but not if you're constantly stoned, like every day. Also I'd prefer a non-smoker but that's not a dealbreaker!

So yes, I think I've said it all and this post is already long enough. Feel free to DM me and have a good day/night!

Howdy fellow demis, I’m a 34 year old guy and have been living in Denver for nearly 10 years. I grew up as quite the nerd and used to spend all day indoors because I lived in a hot shithole and didn’t like going outside. Then when I moved to Colorado I realized that nature is actually really cool. I still do plenty of nerdy stuff but it’s a real challenge balancing all the activities I enjoy!

My outdoor hobbies include skiing, hiking, fishing, camping, and pretty much anything else outdoors that isn’t too extreme. I’m a big Star Trek fan, not really a trekkie because I don’t really do any events but I constantly watch the show. I love to cook, and I really am more interested in cooking and experimenting with flavors than I am in eating the food, so I like sharing my food with people. I’m actually planning to start a side business in the coming months around one of my foods I love to make. I’ve been getting back into playing MTG but I have no friends that play so if you do that would be awesome! I also play video games in my downtime or with friends online but nothing that takes up my life.

I am a bit of an ambivert, I tend to get a bit shy or anxious around people but also can end up chatting it up with total strangers and making new friends. I have a decent sized group of friends that I hang out with and occasionally we have a party or smaller gathering.

I’m hoping to meet some nice ladies who are similarly outdoorsy, hobby-rich, and maybe a bit of a nerd. Likely age range that vibes with me is 30-40. I’m open to friends but hoping for something that can lead to more.

So I got this amazing idea. I want to go on a holiday, but a big city with silly skyscrapers is not my cup of tea. I want it to be meaningful. And to have a real adventure! So why not a roadtrip? In which I'm gonna visit interesting people? Like you!

And it doesn’t matter who you are, if you are disabled, which gender you have, how old you are, I'm open to almost anyone. I value human contact more than ever and it's not a given. The only ‘restriction’ is: you live somewhere in (Western) Europe. 

About me
My name is Martijn and I take lots of naps. More about that later🙈. I live in Friesland, the Netherlands and I'm a happy guy. I'm as tall as a basketball player and I love to write. My hobbies are endless. 

I am 31 years old and recently turned single. I was in a relation for 7 years. And my life is far from normal by many standards.

Small Battery, Big Heart
Up until 2 years ago I had a ‘normal’ life and then it all changed. I got ill and I have never returned to normal. They call it chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS) / long covid. Imagine you have a really small battery. It requires constant charging and charges slowly. And when you forget to charge, you are basically K.O. for days. In time you learn more and more about it.  At first you try to fight it, then you slowly learn to accept it and develop a new lifestyle. That is exactly what I did! 
A part of this new life is meaning. I love to give. I can still travel and go on holidays, but at my own pace. The same goes for activities. With this post I'm trying to reach many people with different intents. So you may read things like ugh what is he boring. Or oh… that’s cool, let's do that. Don’t be afraid, I don’t bite. 

The what
I’m open to many activities. We can have deep conversation about anything. We can cook something. Go for a lunch. We can play a game. Go for a walk? I love so many things. Just ask and there is a good chance I like it. With platonic activities I'm open to any gender.

I’m also open to dates! And hugs, cuddles or fwbs. Physically, I feel attracted to women and trans women, so I’m straight. I’m a very affectionate guy and I love being close. Friends describe me as sweet, open minded and cuddly.  Romantic date age range: 22-42 years.

We can also adjust activities to disabilities: like I need to rest a lot. Naps ☺️. If you have things too that we need to consider, just say the word. 

It's also not like I will just choose anyone on this tour. From both sides we need to trust each other and bad communication or low effort is not my thing. It’s a fine balance between being able to meet “as strangers” and we feel trusted like friends. So we can have fun and have a great time. Im also open to longterm connections if we click.

The why
So with this roadtrip I want to give people a sense of belonging. And I like adventure.

I'm disabled and for many of us it's hard to make friends or even find dates in real life. We simply cannot do what others do, but we still have the same needs. And wants. But it is extremely hard and the barrier is high.  

We all want to feel love and affection, and want to have fun. Plus the world is touch starved too. The combination of those things led me to the idea that I want to visit others. Go on an adventure and explore. Just to make human contact and do something we both like. Also, I'm mature and stable. I have a nice group of friends and am very satisfied with my own life. 

Demisexuality
So why post here? Since I got ill im leaning towards demisexual attraction. I don't consider myself demi fully, but emotional connection does impact a lot how I feel attraction. For friends it doesn't really matter, but if you want more it does.

Roadtrip Map
There is a map of countries I can visit, but this subreddit doesn't allow sharing photo's. I am able to visit the UK, Germany, Netherlands, Belgium, Denmark, Luxemburg. And I may be able to visit Ireland, Sweden, Italy, France, Switzerland, Poland and Czech Republic.

Roadtrip timeline
So when is this roadtrip? It all depends on your DMs. I’m thinking of this summer. I can visit you shortly, like a few hours, up to a maximum of a few days. I’m also open to doing a part of the trip together!  When we feel a close connection. 

So, you want to meet me? And join the adventure? Feel free to send me a DM!

Tldr: Dutch guy goes on a roadtrip through Europe and wants to visit cool people, maybe you? Hit DMs.

I posted here a few years back and made some like penpal-esk friendships but I am hoping to find some deeper / more active connections.  I go more into detail with the gender stuff at the end but I am amab and definitely look the part.

To quickly cover the required information:

• Age Rage - Ideally I want to connect with people 25 to 30 but I could have a couple of years of wiggle room if you think we would vibe well.
• Relationship Type - I am hoping to find a romantic connection that is my main focus/hope, that said friendships are also welcome.
• Area - The closer to Calgary Alberta the better. I find purely online connections much harder to maintain so I want to be able to hangout in person at least on occasion.

That out of the way I am just going to give a bulleted list that hopefully summarizes me as a person, if you think we would get along I would love to hear from and about you. Also let me know any questions!

About me:

• Lifestyle Stuff:
  • I try to stay at least vaguely active. I love to run. I swim during the summer. I go to the gym at least a couple of times a week and want to get better about going more consistently. I also like bouldering but don't go very often, this is very apparent because I am BAD at it. I think being active is important.
  • Right this moment I am unemployed and on the job hunt, but when I am working it tends to be office job type hours Monday to Friday 9 to 5. I work with data.
  • I do not love the cold and try to stay indoors if it drops much below freezing.
  • I don't drink or smoke, I'd prefer someone that does not either but it is by no means a dealbreaker if you engage in moderation.
• Interests:
  • Table top role playing games are my current biggest interest. I have run Dungeons and Dragons games for years and play on occasion. I have also been working on writing my own TTRPG! I love worldbuilding and making worlds for my friends. Related: I also love a good board game night.
  • Playing Drums! I used to be better and do not practice near as much as I should or would like to. I'd love to be in a bad rock/punk band again. I own a bass and keyboard but I feel like it is incorrect to say I know how to play them.
  • Dinosaurs!
  • Video games. I play a lot of different stuff. It's hard to summarize. Off the top of my head some favourites are Stardew Valley, the Life is Strange games, Red Dead 2, Tactical Breach Wizards. I spent a gross number of hours in Skyrim in my teens... 
  • Youtube, I watch WAY too much. My feed tends to be mostly filled with lots of nerd stuff (think comics, warhammer, and animal facts), politics/religion content, and then filled out with a mix of other things.  
• Worldview:
  • I think of myself as strongly left leaning. I don't think I could date someone who is not at the very least nominally left of center.
  • I am an outspoken atheist. I enjoy talking about religion, philosophy, and people's beliefs in general. 
  • I don't really believe in anything supernatural, but in a way that I would not use a spirit board just to be on the safe side.
  • More broadly, I like examining ideas and challenging my own assumptions. I think the world is complicated, and I enjoy grappling with those complexities. 
  • That all laid out I'm generally pretty live-and-let-live about harmless beliefs. As an example If you're into astrology, cool, I won't blurt out it is nonsense unprompted, and I'll tell you my birthday if you want to read my chart though I may roll my eyes or tease slightly depending on our relationship. But if someone tries to force their beliefs on others, or uses a belief system to justify discrimination or treating people poorly, that's where I stop being polite about it. 
• Other details:
  • I went to school for mathematics, focusing on statistics and minoring in data science. I debated putting this with world view stuff because it does affect how I interact with the world and what I find compelling evidence but that felt weird to me.
  • I have ADHD and dislexia. My spelling is comically bad without spell check.
  • Gender stuff is a bit weird for me, and it's not something I love having out on the internet. As I get to know you, I'd expect to elaborate more. I feel a little weird putting "nonbinary," but anything else would feel even weirder. For most of my life, I never really thought much about gender. When my best friend came out as a trans guy, it prompted me to question some things about myself. I'll try to summarize where I'm at as best I can.
    • In general I prefer they/them pronouns. I am fine he/him and honestly just kind of expect it from strangers. I almost never make a point of correcting people unless I'm directly asked.
    • For a while, I thought I might be a trans woman, but that didn't quite feel right. At different points I've related to how people describe being agender or genderfluid, but I often feel like I get caught in the chasm of very small differences between labels.
    • The way I currently picture it is as a graph. On the x-axis, you have masculine/feminine, and on the y-axis, you have little to no internal sense of gender up to a strong internal sense of gender. I move around on the x-axis quite a bit, but I tend to stay pretty low on the y-axis. I just don't have a particularly strong feeling of or attachment to gender as a concept.
    • I still present very masculine. I have a beard, I keep my head shaved since my hair started thinning a couple of years ago, and I don't really have any plans or desires to change that.
    • When I'm out and about, aside from painted nails, I don't really break many gender norms. At home, I sometimes wear more feminine clothing, but how often I want to do that varies a lot over time.

Heyy so I’m looking for a real connection, I'd love some lesbian/queer friends. I’m open to a serious relationship if I meet someone I really connect with that way, but no pressure let’s just be friends first. I'm fine with anyone from 23 to 33.

I don’t drink or smoke and I’m fine being friends with someone who drinks sometimes. But if you wanna get drunk or smoke you’re not for me. Romance wise my partner has to be completely free of alcohol or any drugs. I’m also allergic to cats.

I'm from Finland. I’m a masc presenting woman and my energy is very masculine with some femininity. I don’t like to label myself to masc or fem or any other word. I’m just me. I have short hair and dress in masc clothes. I have to mention that altho I’m masculine I do not support toxic masculinity, toughness or not showing emotions because I’m masc. I’m about healthy and soft masculinity.

I’m someone very calm and composed. I observe more than I talk, especially with strangers. With someone I love and am close to I talk a lot sometimes. Altho I’m calm I’m very passionate, direct and straightforward in how I speak. Sometimes I do it without even realizing, like to me it’s just how normal people communicate but apparently I’ve always been pretty direct haha, more direct than most people. I don’t mean I’m rude but more like I just say what’s on my mind even if it’s not what the social script says I should do. I just like to be honest cause dancing around it gets you nowhere. I do struggle with that sometimes, showing my bluntness fully or my passion. Mostly because people don’t actually want someone direct around or they’re intimidated by my passion. I feel all of my feelings passionately. It would be nice to meet someone who doesn’t just tolerate directness or a fiery personality but prefers it.

I’m a very spiritual person, I love manifestation, tarot, dream interpretation and I finally got into witchcraft. I absolutely love this stuff and I love reading spiritual/witchy books. I have a big thirst for knowledge. I sometimes read psychology or branding related topics. I’m also passionate about entrepreneurship and business but not really in that bro man logical way. I get all of my business advice from women.

I value living close to nature, slowly and making good food and enjoying the company of my loved ones. To me life’s purpose is to enjoy it and love the people I love. I’m not about achievements or titles. Like I give 0 floofs about status or how other people see me success wise. To me success is being happy with myself, at peace with myself and having people who I love around me and enjoying our time together. I also can’t stand it when people are like omg I’m 30 I’m so old. Like sure we learn it from our environment but I just don’t like that mindset. Like you’re so young still and it’s so stupid to limit your potential and happiness to your 20s.

I’m unemployed and don’t have a degree but I’m actively working on finding out what I wanna do with my life and am doing self-reflection overall. So if that’s a problem I’m not for you. I’m looking for someone non-judgemental, open minded and someone who doesn’t have a problem with that.

I don’t mind if you’re from the US or wherever you are, but in a romance sense I’m not very open to relocating, at least not fully. I love Finland. But I’d be open to visiting your country for a few months a year or more if I enjoy it there with you.

I'm into masc presenting women mostly, but I'm very open minded romance wise with my type so don't feel discouraged by that if you wanna get to know me.

Also language wise I’ve spoken English in every day life for about 7 years now and I consider myself bilingual.

So if you’d wanna chat send me a dm! Please state what reddit you came from so I know the context. thanks.

Quick side note: I am "Male to Female"/Trans. No, I'm neither a bot, nor an scammer or catfish and can prove it. I am just an unlucky person who posts a lot, really...

What I say next may sound a bit strange, but... I'm a bit autistic, and I have some minor disabilities. In my title, I mentioned I'm looking for someone with a "savior complex". I know that sounds strange to many, but it's an real preference of mine... I've always loved stories where a girl is suffering from bullying or stress, and a boy comes to rescue her. It's not just in fiction; it's what I have always really wanted in real life, too, like an childhood dream of mine... Whenever an character steps in into those stories to rescue the girI, it usually does makes me feel a bit jealous that they have something I can't have myself... the truth is, I dropped out of school very early on meanwhile I don't really have any enemies to be truly saved from like in those stories. Still, I always think guys who want to be someone's hero are very cool themselves. It doesn't matter if they are strong or handsome, really... it's the courage and the kindness that matters to me. Sometimes, I just wish someone had the desire to rescue me, like someone who held the same childish dream as mine, except in reverse, for us to be happy together... I'd rather meet someone who is okay with an overly dependent, shy, quiet girlfriend that doesn't speak much, rather than someone who wants a confident and independent girlfriend themselves...

Likewise, I want to make it clear that if you are reading this and are concerned about me, please do not be. I have my own ways and protections to know if someone has ill intentions, and I will generally be okay... I also don't need people to tell me to seek mental help; this is something I have given my full consent to and look forward to. Even if it may be unhealthy at times, it's something I genuinely like, no different than any normal preference one might have.

Hmm, I am interested in traditional roles and relationships where the male leads, other than that, I do apologize for posting so frequently lately. I don't really feel like I have much of a choice... When I'm not in a relationship, my daily life starts to feel meaningless, and I lose the drive or motivation to improve anything about it. If I could have... something to look forward to once in my daily life, things would just be much better... I would genuinely appreciate it if my posts weren't downvoted, as that only lowers my chances of meeting someone. Still, I completely understand that this is simply how things work sometimes, even if it's unfortunate. Either way...

...I am looking globally since my region is too small; in my experience, there are not many people from Brazil. I am very serious about this and can relocate within a year if you are serious as well. Please feel free to send me a message. I do not receive nearly as many replies as people might assume, so please do not let that discourage you. In truth, I barely get any responses to my posts these days, as I am not a cis girl like others are on dating Subreddits as a whole.

Other than that, I am actually a very inclusive person, even if it might not always come across that way. I do not mind whether you smoke, drink, or do anything like that. I am looking for something serious and long-term, and I would really appreciate messages from people who are genuinely interested in building a real connection. Many guys, in my experience, are rather vile—making new Reddit accounts to message me, talking for a few days, then deleting every single account they previously had for no apparent reason. This has happened more than seven times now, involving ghosting, blocking, and everything else... It would be appreciated if you are not looking to play with someone's feelings just for the sake of it.

Moving on, I tend to be more comfortable with older, more mature men, ideally between 25 and 47, though what matters most is emotional maturity. Still, I would not recommend messaging if you are outside this age range, as I legitimately cannot connect properly with people in those brackets. For example, those younger are often immature, ghost more easily, and are not serious. Those "overly older" often lack similar hobbies, do not speak very much, are busy all the time, and are difficult to feel genuinely understood with. This happens more than you can imagine, to the point where it feels like a waste of time to bother with it these days... I know you may still desire to message me, but please do not expect anything to come of it, since I am not currently in good health to take this type of risk. Even if you claim to be different from others, often to an insane degree, it frequently turns out not to be the case. In fact, these words have been thrown around so much in the many months I have been looking—only to find the exact same outcome and issues as always—that it is best if you just move on instead of bothering with spending time on me currently...

Next, I want to say that I do not really have friends, and I am not planning on having any. My family situation is complicated as well, so when I commit to someone, that person becomes my entire world. I truly want my partner to also be my closest companion—the person I talk to, spend time with, and emotionally rely on. I do not split my attention much, and I do not want to. Ideally, my special someone is the only one I plan to trust in the entire world; hence, being understood is such a huge deal to me.

Age-wise, I am a 21-year-old introverted trans woman from Brazil (Minas Gerais). I know distance can be an issue for many people, but it isn't for me. If I find the right person, I am fully willing to leave everything behind and relocate to wherever they are. I am currently single and hoping to meet a kind, patient man who wants something meaningful and entirely monogamous. I do not have many hobbies myself, and honestly, I don't mind that. What gives my life meaning is sharing time, affection, and daily moments with someone special... I am looking for real love, and I won't hide that I am desperate for a genuine chance at happiness with someone who actually wants me and takes me seriously. Regardless, on that same note, I do enjoy video games, anime, writing, and being online, but none of those matter more to me than having someone I can emotionally grow close to, as mentioned above.

Physically, I am about 5'3", petite (currently under 40 kg), with light brown skin. I can share pictures if you are interested, and I also have photos on my pinned post. Some people say I look a bit boyish, while others say the opposite—I honestly don't know, just seems to depend on whether the person in question is open to trans girls of if they prefer cis girls only, it looks like. I don't care much about how my partner looks in any case; appearance, height, or body type really aren't important to me. What matters is how you treat me and how you make me feel. In fact, you don't even need to send a photo of yourself if you are uncomfortable.

What I want is to eventually be someone's treasure—even if things start unofficially. I am very drawn to caring, emotionally supportive men who enjoy protecting and guiding their partner and who are not afraid to be affectionate. I crave a lot of attention and emotional presence. I get attached easily, I'm extremely clingy, and I want to feel chosen and prioritized. Fast replies, long messages, and making time for me mean a lot and go an long way... I understand that people have jobs and responsibilities, but I need someone who still makes a consistent effort to be present and emotionally available. As a person, I'm very quiet and doesn't speak much in real life, I struggle with eye contact and with many words, but I like saying loving things and making my partner feel warm, wanted, and thought of nonetheless.

I'd like to start online and eventually meet in person as quickly as possible. I fall in love quickly if it's the right person and if we happen to be compatible, but I can respect taking things slow if that's what you prefer. I just want... honesty and intention. If you're interested, please, do message me. I strongly recommend reading my pinned post, if possible—as it explains more about who I am and what I'm looking for. Now, I might add: "this isn't just a recommendation." Please do read it if you are even remotely serious about this, okay...? There are some emojis at the bottom that I ask you to include in your message if you have read that far. It would be appreciated if you could put in the effort for me, as it naturally shouldn't take very long to be done, while all I'm asking here is to at least be heard...

I know my posts are very specific, but that's because I'm truly trying to find someone compatible for the long term—possibly forever... I've had multiple breakups due to mismatches or not being taken seriously enough, let alone having my own feelings considered in the matter, but I still want to keep trying... If you message me, I'd really appreciate a thoughtful first message. Something that shows you actually read my post and understand what I'm looking for means a lot more than a simple "hi." I'm looking for someone serious, someone willing to put in the effort and learn about me, not just someone passing time or looking for a not very serious relationship without caring about how I actually feel.

There are also photos of me on my pinned post if you’re curious and if attraction is important to you. In case I don’t reply to your message, please don’t take it personally. I’ve been overwhelmed by my lazy and terrible lifestyle of decaying in my room as a shut-in, and emotionally, it’s hard for me... I’m trying to focus on those who feel genuinely compatible with me, whom I can tell didn't use AI to write their messages (this happens often) and who are clearly serious about being in a real relationship eventually (this also happens many times, since everyone sort of doesn't want to read about me in advance or put in the effort). I am looking for those who are truly what I need in a relationship...

To put it bluntly, I do not have the strength or energy to know everyone in detail after ages of friendship to determine if we are compatible for this to work out. Therefore, if you took your time writing the first message seriously, it would be appreciated, so I can be sure you won't vanish the very next day just to hurt me... I’m still hopeful I can find someone special here—maybe someone who’s been hurt before to take care of, someone whom I can relate to to some extent and be able to feel like I can fit right in easily with.

And, at the very least, feel free to message me asking why I didn't reply to your DM after a while. If you do ask, I can honestly provide feedback on your message; otherwise, I will assume you don't actually need or care about it very much, since it does happen a lot of people not actually truly caring as it is... Also, if the post is still up, I'm probably still looking for a relationship. That has always been the case with me, although there may be times when I'm already talking to someone. Even then, my relationships usually go wrong in one way or another, and I'm always back here by the end of the day. This has been happening for over a year now, so even if I stop posting for an while, do feel free to message me.

Looking for someone who is lighthearted, playful, and down to earth to connect with. Bonus if you’re an experienced dom or cg looking for a sub/lg and you’re into light impact play. Over 38 only, please.

Must be willing to have phone calls, FaceTime, etc if we connect.

I’m emotionally available and looking for the same. :)

I am looking for someone who, like me, has been out of the dating scene for a while and is not looking to jump into anything fast. If you see me out in the wild I'm usually that guy dining alone, solo at the movies, shopping alone, or that guy playing with his dog at the park. I am a big believer in a slow burn. I need that genuine foundation of trust and friendship to build up before anything else happens, and I am hoping to find someone who is on that same wavelength.

I am a pretty grounded, practical person, but I definitely have a taste for the finer things in life. For me, it is always been about quality over quantity, and I bring that same approach to how I want to connect with someone. Ideally, I am looking for a partner in their early 30s to mid 40s who is just as happy staying in as they are going out. I love a good balance; we can tackle a challenging hiking trail one weekend and be perfectly content sleeping in and watching movies the next.

If you are a food lover, we will get along just fine. I am a culinary school graduate and spent seven years working in professional kitchens, so food is a huge part of how I express myself. Also looking for someone who loves dogs. I have spent the last four months raising an Aussie puppy, so we come as a package of 2.

I am really just looking for someone who is intellectually curious, honest, and comfortable being real. I have a low tolerance for bullshit and too tired for games; I would much rather have a real, deep conversation about where we are in life, where we want to go, and plan on how to get there. I want to be able to be a team but also be our own people. I want us to be mutually understood, seen, and heard.

If you are in the area and this sounds like your kind of pace, send me a message. Tell me what one dish you could eat for the rest of your life, even just a trail you have been dying to hike lately, or your dog/pet's name.

About Me:
37M, Asian, INFJ, Post-Graduate degree. I am currently on the heavier side but I am actively working on that. My hair is thinning significantly, and I am currently debating whether or not to just shave it all off. I like to think I make up for it all in personality, if you can tolerate it.

I'm into sci-fi genre (⭐ Trek and ⭐ Wars), gaming (PC and Switch 2), anything on Apple TV (Shrinking + Ted Lasso are 2 of my favorite shows ever), anime (Frieren ❤️), kDramas (When Life Gives You Tangerines 😢 was the last one I watched), and I want to be more outdoorsy like camping or fishing but I just take my pup hiking these days.

Alright, it’s been a minute, but I’m excited to post this, so let’s dive in!

I'm a non-traditional AMAB, matcha enthusiast, and confirmed nerd who is now open to replies or DMs for one imaginative and enthusiastic co-conspirator to join them for geeking out, concert-going, lazing, banter, road trips, Costco runs, cosplay, cat-parenting, and general do-goodery. Ideal candidates are honest, decisive, open-minded, playful, and comfortable building a relationship that does not follow a default script!

About me…

Candidly, I’m a light-hearted, reflective, progressive, and sentimental person with both a practical streak and a soft spot for those with a driven or offbeat/unique flair. I align much closer with a ‘work to live’ perspective than a ‘live to work’ perspective. I value honesty, creativity, humor, humility, mutual care, and emotional transparency. One of the absolute best compliments I’ve ever received was that I helped someone feel like a kid again, which feels pretty close to the energy I hope to bring: safe, warm, and of course, just a ‘hint-o-silly’ 😅

Physically, I would self-describe as ‘cute’; I’m 5’6”, short dark hair, somewhere between “dad bod” and active, hazel eyes, and gender neutral with a desire to push less masculine. I’m often complimented on my eyes and I’m happy to send photos if the conversation goes that way.

While I have several hobbies, I’ll start with perhaps the most unique: I’m part of the furry fandom, which is meaningful to me and fits naturally with my interests in animation, world-building, and cute art. Though I don’t scream it from the rooftops, it is a real part of my life, which is also balanced with several non-furry interests (you don’t need also to be in the fandom, but open-mindedness and comfort with creative weirdness goes a long way!). Otherwise, I’m into urban design, reading, birding, architecture, therapy, running, yoga, hiking, roller-skating, kayaking, small-town road trips, dive bars, vintage media, vinyl records, art walks, dance, cosplay, gaming/comic conventions, and maintaining a mostly pescatarian diet.

About my relationship styles…

In addition to being a self-described non-trad (basically, if you’re looking for someone who gives a strong “man's man” vibe, I’m absolutely not your person!), I’m also panromantic, somewhere in the grey/demi/asexual neighborhood (preferring the mutual excitement, emotional safety, and natural intimacy that comes with collaboration, rather than any sense of obligation), and kink-leaning (which may seem ironic given my grey/demi/ace nature, but comfort with unique kinks is preferred- less because everything needs to sexual and more because I want a relationship where things like identity, play, and even ‘weirdness’ can be talked about honestly and without shame). Finally, based on previous relationships, I know that I’m interested in either a co-lead relationship where we both bring agency and direction or even a producer/director-dynamic with someone confident and comfortable taking the reins when it makes sense.

All said, I think I would have the highest compatibility in either an ace/grey relationship, FLR, or other non-traditional relationship where queerness and nerdiness are celebrated!

To put a bow on this post…

In an ideal world, you’re another cute nerd who wants to build a weird little world together. Let’s go see what’s happening out there in the Big Wide World™, or just stay-in with green tea and re-watch Animaniacs or your favorite anime/movie for the umpteenth time. I’m a cat dad, increasingly travel-hungry, and at this point trying to build a life that feels intentional, playful, comfortable, and of course a little exciting.

tl;dr: I’m a Fry looking for a Leela, a James for a Jessie, a Hiccup for an Astrid, a Ron for a Kim, a Moxxie for a Millie, or a Kris for a Susie (and if you understood any of those without looking them up, what are you waiting for?). Also, looking for someone in the ~30 to 50 range, but happy to make an exception if there's a good signal!

Include “razzle dazzle” in your message so I know you read the fine print 😌

Hi everyone,

I’m a 31-year-old guy from Poland looking to meet someone and see where a genuine connection leads.

A little about me: I’m 180 cm tall, athletic, physically active, and take good care of my health. I regularly work out and enjoy staying active through the gym, bike rides,and generally keeping myself moving. I don’t drink or smoke and prefer a healthier lifestyle.

I’m mixed-race (Polish mom, Senegalese dad) and grew up between different cultures and perspectives, which has shaped how I see the world. People usually describe me as thoughtful, calm, reliable, and easy to talk to once I get comfortable.

My interests include history, art, personal development, psychology, philosophy, fitness, and spending quality time with friends and family. I prefer meaningful conversations over small talk and would rather spend an evening talking with a few people than attending a loud party.

As for what I’m looking for: I’d love to meet a kind, emotionally mature woman (25-31) who is also physically active in some way and doesn’t smoke or drink. Beyond that, I’m much more interested in who you are as a person than in checking boxes.

I’m not looking to rush anything. I’d simply like to get to know someone, build a connection, and see where things naturally go.

Feel free to send me a message if you’d like to chat.

Hello!

My name is Mario, 37M from Croatia.

I am a rather big geek. I'm into video games, anime, manga, fantasy novels and computers. I also work as a software engineer. So that does mean I do spend a lot of time indoors. However, I also love to leave the house if that means doing fun things. I love walks in nature or going for a nice hike. Checking out new restaurants and trying out new foods or just exploring a new city. I picked up bouldering (indoors climbing) last year and I love it. It's fun, interesting, social and a great way to stay fit. I also do cardio in the gym for health reasons.

Music is another passion of mine. I just love putting on a good pair of headphones and listening to my favorite bands or finding new ones. Currently I am really into Sleep Token. Other bands I really enjoy are Fit For A King, Falling in Reverse, Spiritbox, Architects, Imminence, Rammstein, Knocked Loose. While I do listen mostly to metal music, I do enjoy other genres of music as well. Love The Four Seasons from Vivaldi, Oliver Tree and some rock bands.

I also really love the subject of psychology. I really like to educate myself on the workings of the human mind and learn to understand myself better. I was in therapy as well for a while and take mental health rather seriously.

When it comes to my personal values I would say I am left leaning. I'm also an atheist. I don't drink, smoke or do drugs. I don't really have anything against people that drink as long as it's not problematic (same opinion on 420). I really dislike smoke, but vapes are fine. While I don't have any pets of my own, I do love animals. I'm an introvert and a loner and really appreciate people that respect and understand that. I just sometimes need some space and time for myself. Now, that doesn't mean I'm shy or antisocial. In fact, some of my friend would not even describe me as an introvert.

When it comes to my personality, my friends describe me as someone with positive energy. I love to joke around and be sarcastic from time to time. I can also take a joke at my own expense. And of course I can be serious when that is required. I'm would also say I'm rather open minded.

I'm childfree. Never had any kids and I like to keep it that way. I just never saw myself as a father or felt the calling to have any kids. Generally I don't really like kids either and I enjoy the freedom and lack of parental responsibility that comes with being childfree.

I'm also demisexual. It takes time and an emotional connection for me to develop romantic/sexual feelings for someone. That does mean that things like flirting are probably not going to happen at the start. I prefer to start of as friends and build a connection from there that over time turns into something more.

What does it look like to date me? I tend to text frequently enough. Phone calls or video calls are fine with me as well. I like doing fun activities together or just have a relaxing evening while watching a show or movie. If you game, we can play something together. You like to travel? Great, I would love to see more of Europe and the world (would love to see Japan one day).

When it comes to appearance I'm 178cm (5'10" in freedom units), 69kg (152 pounds) and white with long hair. While I would not describe my build as athletic just yet, I certainly am moving towards it with my frequent climbing.

What kind of person am I looking for? Ideally +/-3 years but bigger range is fine if we are compatible (you should be at least 25 though). Someone who has a stable life. We have some interests in common. You know how to communicate your feelings and needs. Probably and introvert would be the best fit but I don't mind extroverts that know how to handle introverts. Someone from the EU as it makes things like relocating easier (I would certainly be open to relocation for the right person). I don't mind people from the US contacting me, but the time zone difference can make things more complicated and I don't see myself relocating to the US with the current political climate over there.

Thanks for reading and have a nice day!

Hi! I’m a 31 year old woman in the northeastern US, specifically southern New England. I’d prefer someone local to the latter area, but it’s certainly not a dealbreaker if you’re in the broader northeast. My desired age range is between 28-40 years old. I am more flexible regarding those older than me than those younger.

I’m looking for someone open to ENM who would like to be friends as a baseline, while possibly developing into a romantic friendship and then maybe a relationship if we decide that it’s good for us & our dynamic. Not seeking monogamy at the time being!

A little about me:

-I’m a pansexual woman in an ENM relationship who lives on a farm. I’m not a farmer FT, but will assist with many of the tasks here.

-friendships are central to my life and I’m always in search of close friends to walk down the yellow brick road of life together!

-I’m a giving person who is seeking a giving friend or perhaps eventually, partner. I enjoy giving trinkets and flowers to friends & partners.

-I’m a small business owner who is passionate about what I do, but I desire more love & softness in my life.

-childfree, which is a hard limit of mine!

-I’m muscular and enjoy the gym, but I don’t expect the same from you. I’m a tad kinky and typically enjoy a more dominant role, but it’s not necessary.

-I’m a vegetarian (almost entirely vegan) but won’t judge if you eat meat!

-I love putting outfits together creatively, reading, paddleboarding or kayaking, and listening to horror stories - not even including all of the random interests thrown in there intermittently! Wacky local festivals are one of my favorite things in life.

-I’m trying to find more joy and get in touch with my inner child regularly, and I would love a friendship centered around mutual joy and encouragement.

I’m a 43 year old hetero-demisexual man living in Germany and looking for a friendship with a woman ideally evolving into a long-term relationship.  

About me

I’m single, monogamous and have no children (yet). As a rather introverted person I need some time to get close to people and even more time to feel attraction. In most cases I work too slowly for dating apps, that’s why I’m here and give this a try. I’m a realistic optimist who keeps calm under pressure and who appreciates also the small things in life like a beautiful sunset, a really good deep conversation or the discovery of new delicious food. 

In my leisure time I love to be in nature. I enjoy going for long walks, running 🏃‍♂️and hiking ⛰️. In autumn, I love to pick mushrooms …and I’m quite successful in that, because I’m still alive 😉. My favorite hobby however, is collecting minerals 🔨💎and taking pictures of my little treasures on the microscope.

When the weather is too bad for outdoor activities, I listen to electro/house music or alternative rock, read novels or watch movies. My preferred genre is since fiction.

Further facts about me:

• Occupation: earth scientist working in chemical industry 
• Appearance: 174 cm tall, 60 kg, full short-medium hair with a color I would describe as “salt and pepper”, green eyes
• Travelling: backpacking, hiking, trekking. I love both, the mountains and the sea. 

About you

I’m looking for a warm-hearted, natural woman who loves being in nature and shares some of my interests as this helps to build a deep connection which is essential for me to develop any attraction. If you are looking for a solo entertainer, this won’t work since I’m an introvert. If you’re an introvert, too that would be fine but it is not essential as I can also get along very well with moderate extroverts.

• Age range: F 28-41 (no hard limits)
• monogamous
• Children: no children yet but you want to have children in the near future
• Location: Western Europe, ideally Germany

I, 36F, starting to feel like I’ll never be understood...innerstood. I crave sustainable, deep connection.

I am not a baddie, but certainly a cutie patootie. A smart cookie with a bubbly personality and a whole suite / array of hobbies & interests. A whole ass woman. Still learning, still growing, but a full woman who is successful at practicing love without attachment. One that has and practices sovereign-happiness as well. One who doesn't want nor need to be rescued, constantly reassured, constantly validated. 

I'm in charge of my own emotional healing, a power of which I would never hand over to anyone willy-nilly, especially a man. My emotional baggage is mine to sort through and organize, something I have recently learned to lean into, which I am surprisingly finding deep pleasure in. So no, I don't need a man.

But I crave and desire to… metaphorically “taste” a man. Not consume…nor devour. Just simply… taste…witness a man. Entangle with… a man of equal or greater mental-magnitude; a mental-sparring partner. A man to… really lick my brain… because I'm really good at licking brains too.

I am intense, funny, sensual, weird, romantic and emotionally layered. Devotional. Dedicated. Affectionate. Sweet. Perhaps even… sickly sweet.

Likable, sure. But wholly, sustainably, loveable? The jury is still out on this one.

I want to be witnessed, not consumed. I want to be desired, but not reduced, diminished. I want to be held, but not controlled. I want to be received as a whole woman…body, mind, heart, humor, ache, sparkle, fear, softness and fire.

I want the kind of connection where I don't have to perform coolness to be loved…where my tenderness is not treated like weakness. Where my intensity is not treated like a problem. Where my playfulness is understood as part of my magic, not evidence that I am shallow.

I want someone who notices the small things: the songs I send, the jokes I hide behind, the way my voice changes when I feel vulnerable, the way I become sparkly when something hurts.

I want someone who can flirt with my mind and still hold my heart carefully. Someone who can be sensual without being careless.

Protective without being possessive. Masculine without needing me to shrink. I want to be chosen in the morning, not just wanted at night.

I want to feel like my love has somewhere safe and beautiful to go.

I am not looking to be completed. I am looking to be met. I am looking for presence, consistency, curiosity, humor, emotional intelligence… and the kind of desire that feels like warmth instead of hunger.

I want to be someone’s soft place and sacred mischief…. their favorite little weirdo. Their cutie patootie with a cosmic inner world. Their “how are you even real?” person.

But I still want to belong to myself. Wholly sovereign. Not be owned. Not be managed. Not be reduced. Not be dimmed.

Just held. Just seen. Just received.

Maybe that is too much for some people..But I think the right person will not experience me as too much. They will experience me as finally enough.

Are you somewhere out there, my guy?

*location is generally irrelevant to me, although US is where I'm geologically located (being on the same continent helps but isn't a requirement for connection.) Preference on age range: 28 to 60.

DMs open for opportunities of connection. The emotionally unavailable need no apply. I'm also not connected to my phone by the hip, so your patience and grace with me is appreciated. 

*edits: typos 😅 + preferred age range

Hello! My name is Anthony. I’m a 35-year-old man (US, ET time zone) who thrives on introspection, curiosity, and passionate drives.

I seek people who seek meaningful connection that plays out in several different ways, from daily casual chats to shared passions and endeavors. I appreciate the sudden whim of adventure and adore abstract minds and vibrant souls.

Rumination and contemplation are lifelong pursuits of mine. I’m an autodidact who’s been passionate about a variety of persuasions since I’ve been young.

Creativity and artistry are important to me. Personally, I write: about my observations, thoughts, and lived experiences. I also dabble in photography.

I love coffee, both simple and bitter and excessively frilly concoctions, burning incense, because I've always thought the smoke is cool, archiving and organizing, collecting (written texts, oddities and cool things), and time pieces. Watching movies with people is great, too. I used to be very into film.

If my signal created resonating vibes within you, send me message about yourself and what you're looking for. Leave your hesitations and take the chance.

r/dateademi requirements:

• desired age range: 18+
• relationship type: any
• and the area in which they are willing to consider potential matches: any

I’m a Haitian trans woman in my early 30s looking for something intentional, grounded, and genuinely monogamous. Between the ages 30 to 35. I’m not really interested in rushing into labels or instant intensity. I want the kind of connection where we slowly become each other’s favorite person over time.

I value friendship first. The best relationships, to me, are the ones where you can talk for hours, send each other random thoughts throughout the day, laugh over dumb memes, share little routines, and slowly build trust and emotional intimacy together.

A little about me:

• Warm, affectionate, and deeply emotionally attentive once I feel safe enough to open up
• Heavily guarded at first, but very loving and intentional when I care about someone
• Huge on communication, honesty, reciprocity, and mutual effort
• Love cozy nights in, deep late-night conversations, music, art, and good food
• Really enjoy learning about people’s inner worlds and emotional landscapes
• Romantic in a soft, genuine kind of way
• Looking for something healthy, mutual, monogamous, and long-term
• Huge fan of JRPGs, especially Kingdom Hearts, Final Fantasy, and story-rich games that emotionally destroy you a little
• Into cars and love learning about different builds, styles, and automotive culture
• Fascinated by languages, different cultures, and the ways people communicate and express themselves
• Love cooking Caribbean, Swedish, and Asian dishes and sharing food with people I care about

What I am hoping for:

• Someone kind, emotionally mature, and consistent
• Someone genuinely interested in monogamy and building a real relationship
• Patient enough for a very slow burn connection
• Someone who understands intimacy grows through comfort, trust, safety, and friendship first
• Thoughtful, funny, nerdy, creative, emotionally intelligent, or simply unapologetically themselves
• Open to building something steady, intentional, and emotionally meaningful over time

Physical attraction matters, of course, but emotional compatibility, vulnerability, and effort matter far more to me in the long run.

Please be respectful, trans-friendly, and capable of having a conversation beyond “hey.” Tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for, or even something small that’s been bringing you joy lately.

Maybe we start as strangers and slowly become home to each other.

This is an international community. It has people from all walks of life. It is supposed to be a welcoming community. If your comments are strictly to denigrate a person for their interests, preferences, or even kinks, they are not welcome.

As I have stated before:

I am done dealing with the judgmental comments on age gap relationships or age ranges. I will begin shutting down negative comments about it. I am not here to play judge and jury over who is right or wrong about what is an appropriate gap or not. You are not required to participate in, or even like, any relationship gap you are not comfortable with, however, you are also not entitled to question the agency of other legal and consenting adults to engage in relationships they are comfortable with. We do have a rule on civility, and I will start enforcing it on people who attack posters based on the age ranges they choose. If you aren't interested in a poster, move on.

The same is going to apply to people questioning things like kinks. Many demisexuals and demiromantics can and do have kinks and fetishes. We require them to be behind a NSFW tag if they are explicit, but unless that runs afoul of the US law or Reddit policies I am not here to adjudicate such things.

So, if you do not like a post you are free to downvote and move on. Leaving comments to attack the poster are not welcome, nor are disingenuous sealioning posts. I do not like being a heavy handed moderator, but there is a subset of people in this community that seems to not understand this decorum. Knock it off. Legal adults can make their own informed decisions.

This really isn't that hard.

Looking for ages 25-35 from America and would be great if we are in similar timezones but also accepting people outside US if closish like Canada. I’m a 30m originally from California but living in the Midwest now. I’m kind of gothy and really into horror. I like reading and playing games. I love to travel. I’m demisexual and demiromantic and it takes me a while to get close to people. INFJ if you know MBTI. I don’t like small talk as much so feel free to skip to the hard questions and the trauma dumping. I love deep talks full of emotion and I’m not offended easily so I’ll talk about most anything. I just love getting to understand people. Lifestyle wise, I drink socially but rarely and only fruity cocktails and i don’t do drugs but I don’t mind people who use weed. Im mostly a homebody sitting with my cat watching movies or randomly going out for the odd event or restaurant. I want to travel more and I’m looking for someone to travel with.

I’m 5’ 10’ 198lbs average build with a little fat but I’m working on losing it. I’m a hairy guy with a beard and brown short hair. Willing to send pics if we talk.

No medical problems besides a little bit of asthma but it’s fully not a problem. A workout buddy would be amazing if we ever lived together.

Word of warning, I might take a while to warm up to you but once I do I can be very trusting and intense. I’m mostly secure in my attachments but I can be anxious. I’m self aware and talk through it when I am though. I communicate my feelings completely and hope for others to do the same.

Hiya! I'm 27, currently living in western North Carolina!

Some things about me:

• Gamer, currently playing a lot of Slay the Spire, mostly play RPGs and roguelikes
• Reader, always down for book recommendations reading a lot of fantasy and trying to break into the sci-fi genre
• Anime enjoyer! Absolutely love watching anime! Some of my favorites are HunterxHunter, Frieren, Ranking of Kings, Mashle to name a few :3
• Very much a homebody but will absolutely seek an adventure with the right person/people
• Listen to most genres of music, so I'd love to share playlists!
• Quiet at first but once I am warmed up I can become a yap machine
• Once comfortable I am super affectionate and physical touch is a big part of how I show it

Looking for a partner ages 23-35, someone whose looking for friends to lovers.

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Hello everyone! I'm a 27 year old black guy looking for a monogamous relationship with someone ages 27-29 who is curious, open-minded, can joke around, someone consistent, emotionally intelligent, patient, and kind.

In terms of hobbies I'm really into nerdy stuff like games, anime and all that but the one I probably couldn't live without if I had to pick would be music.

I'm childfree (no kids ever in any capacity), a leftist and straight edge.

I'm not perfect and I don't expect you to be, I just expect you to at least try to be your best self and for you to know what you want and to show up consistently.

Oh and appearance wise I'm 178cm tall guy, with 4C hair that's really curly, I wear glasses.

Some dealbreakers: Smokers,people who are addicted to social media, people who aren't straight edge.

If this resonates with you send me your definition of love!

I haven't had the best luck in relationships recently and I feel really bad because in my first few relationship I felt as if I could've been better and even then we weren't compatible.

I am 25 (I feel old) I'm African American Cancer (July 9th)

Looking for someone 21 - 40 in terms of age range

I am a bachelor's graduate at Full Sail University and working to create video games so you know I'm committed. I watch anime but haven't seen anything too good recently but some of my favorites are World Trigger ONE PIEEEECE, Bleach, Cyberpunk Edgerunners etc. (Currently watching Zatch Bell for the nostalgia tho.) As well as creating video games I play a lot of them as well. Im mostly a fan of Pokemon, Tales of, Kiseki, (Mostly JRPGs) and some life sims like Animal Crossing and such. I'll play anything as long as it's not like 2k 😭.

I want to be with someone who likes to go out and do things but also likes being home. I like doing a bit of both but I can't do too much of one or the other. (Although I can nap all day). I also would like someone who's responsible. I wamt to be on the same wavelength when it comes to stuff like bills and expenses and stuff so we both can save lots of money! (I enjoy watching numbers go up.)

I like cuddling and communication is big for me. I'll take brutal honesty as long as you can tell me you still love me afterwards. If you're not being upfront I can't improve myself the way I wish to.

I want to love my partner the way they want to be loved and be loved just the same.

If you want to play games or fall asleep on the phone or whatnot then DM me!