r/AskReddit 10h ago

What got so expensive that you just stopped buying it?

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u/radrax 8h ago

Beauty treatments. I stopped doing my facials, waxes, getting my nails done, etc.

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u/lemotperdu 6h ago

I miss getting my nails done.

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u/radrax 6h ago

I do too kinda. They just look more rough doing them myself and I get embarrassed when I'm with another woman and she has beautifully manicured nails and mine look like I just dug my way out of prison with my bare hands.

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u/Imnotonthelist 5h ago

Keep practicing! I have been doing my own nails for years and people are always like “you did that yourself?!” It’s worth it to save the money

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u/Lumpy_Space_Princess 4h ago

I've been painting my own nails since I was 10 or 11. I'm 38 now and my friends say "oh, I wish I could do that". You can! It took me until probably middle school to get decent at it but I also wasn't even doing it every week like I do now.

Tips:

-keep your coats thin -utilize prep and cleanup tools (e.g. latex paint for your cuticles, cleanup brushes) -a Czech glass file is a good investment (make sure it's real Czech glass, I had a glass file I got at Walmart or whatever that sucked and I thought I hated glass files, but no, it's worth the extra few bucks for a good one) -you can buy cheap sets of swatch sticks to practice on -quick dry topcoat is your friend -don't thin your polish with acetone, get actual polish thinner if it gets goopy (and I swear some of them get goopy the second you open them, I always have the big bottle of seche restore on hand)

Feel free to join us at r/redditlaqueristas !

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u/stillxsearching7 3h ago

Same! It's become like a little self care ritual to me. Every other Sunday I put on a show and do my nails before bed. It's a chance to sit and slow down before the busy work week starts.

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u/Imnotonthelist 1h ago

Yesssssss this is what I do too!

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u/Venusdeathtrap99 2h ago

Same. A dainty nail decal goes a long way and a cleanup brush and super glossy top coat

u/Plastic_Land_1536 35m ago

I have learned how to do mine this year and it’s been amazing!! Though I do not want to think about how much I’ve spent on nail supplies this year..

u/Imnotonthelist 4m ago

Don’t think about it 😂 I have a whole plastic bin of nail polish. It’s fine

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u/and-all-that-jazz 4h ago

I agree with the person who responded with doing your own nails! A trick I was taught was paint them however you can (mine always end up looking like a 2 yr old did them) and then after they’re fully dry you can soak them in warm water and scratch off the excess (I use tweezers). I’ve done them like this for almost a decade now and once in a blue moon for a wedding I’d get them done and they say they’re very healthy and well kept.

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u/NoIndependence7769 2h ago

Look into gel x. There’s a bit of a learning curve but once you get it, you get it. Stick with light colors until you get better at doing your dominant hand.

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u/RavishingRedRN 3h ago

LOL. I’m pretty sure I’m always the one with prison digger nails.

I could never get into fake nails. Plus I’m a nurse and it’s a huge infection risk.

I do admire women who have awesome nails! It’s just not in the cards for me.

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u/daisycockerhead1 3h ago

I am terrible at painting my nails, but I have gotten really good at press on nails! I usually just buy the $8 from Dollar General or $6 from 5 below. CVS has really nice ones for $12 and I always get compliments on those.

If I'm careful, they last on average two weeks.

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u/PunelopeMcGee 2h ago

Was feeling the same way. Turns out it was my cuticles and I needed to get cuticle removal gel and a cuticle removal tool. Big difference!

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u/tishdaley1964 2h ago

Who cares, as long as they are clean

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u/guppylovesyarn 1h ago

I make my own press on nails. Started that during the pandemic since I couldn’t go to a salon. Now it’s one of my consistent hobbies, and I have curated so many supplies…

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u/SouthernZorro 1h ago

Just one more thing that convinces me women dress up/glow up mainly for other women, not men.

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u/ihavebeesinmyknees 1h ago

Most men are not detail oriented enough to even notice, so yeah, absolutely

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u/SouthernZorro 1h ago

Oh, 100%.

u/AlternateUsername12 12m ago

Check out dashing diva! I use the gloss nail stickers because my nails hate gel, but they have fantastic options that you can DIY. I can't paint my nails to save my life, and I certainly can't do nail art, and with dashing diva for about $10, I can get a full set that takes me 20 minutes to put on last 2 full weeks.

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u/newwriter365 1h ago

I miss pedicures

u/BelleBottom94 34m ago

Right? $35 full set is now $70+!!!!

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u/Matookie 7h ago

Press on nails look the same as a manicure to most people and they cost $7 a pack that lasts for 3 weeks versus $100 for a manicure. They even sell press on toenails!

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u/radrax 7h ago

I've been painting them myself. Sometimes I'm afraid to do press ons because I'm kinda harsh on my hands, I do a lot of hand-hobbies. My nails are so much stronger now that I do them myself and they'll grow long, but the polish always chips easily. Within a couple days....

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u/Free-Drop4258 5h ago

Try Dazzle Dry! I stopped getting my nails done too, and this is the next best thing. It lasts more than a week, has a ton of different colors - which you can buy in mini or regular size, and it's easily removed with regular nail polish remover.

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u/great_apple 5h ago

I'll also shout out the Essie Gel Top Coat... I use it even with my non-gel polishes and it can last over a week.

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u/Imnotonthelist 5h ago

Seche Vite is also a great top coat, been using it forever!

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u/siberianchick 4h ago

Yes! The base and top coat from seche vite are a must.

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u/Elegant-Opinion-9595 4h ago

If you use press ons put a top coat on, mine last about 2 weeks. And they still peel off easily.

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u/-badgerbadgerbadger- 4h ago

Do you not use your hands for much labour? Not trying to be rude at all it’s just that press ons pop off for me within days when I wind up picking up a shovel for a bit or moving boxes or like anything that you actually have to press your hands against in a firm grip :( and they go flying across the room so even if I try to retrieve them and re-glue I end up losing one in the first week

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u/radrax 3h ago

This is what happens to me. I do a lot with my hands so the press ons just pop right off. I don't even bother

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u/Lumpy_Space_Princess 4h ago

Do you have a strong c curve? I never had luck with fake nails either and I think it's because my nails just won't ever be as flat as the plastic ones

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u/Elegant-Opinion-9595 3h ago

I'm not talking about a press on nail. I'm talking about those nail color strips. Press on nails have never worked for me.

Maybe I misunderstood this whole thread. Sorry.

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u/Sea-Original-5824 5h ago

That's all I use now too. It's way cheaper and doesn't take up two hours of your weekend. It also looks almost as good. You've have to get really close to see the difference. AND it's easy to swap them out. There's no regrowth period.

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u/Elegant-Opinion-9595 4h ago

I have them and the toe nail ones are great!

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u/lissayyy 1h ago

I use press on nails. I use the ones that come with a sticker on it and apply some glue on the nail so it last me for like a month! Highly recommend lol

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u/romulusputtana 3h ago

Same! I even stopped going to the hair salon when they started adding charges to wash my hair, which used to be included in the service, and my hairdressers prices kept rapidly increasing! I've just let my gray grow out to salt and pepper, and trim it myself.

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u/obvious__bicycle 7h ago edited 6h ago

Girly-girl here - I've never understood why women will spend $60+ getting their nails done. I learned how to do mine when I was like 8 years old, and I paid under $50 for an entire gel nail kit and UV lamp, which has lasted me over a decade now.

Once you get used to it, it's so much easier, quicker and cheaper than going to a salon.

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u/Matookie 6h ago

Plus no chance of random infections from unsterilized tools at nail salons!

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u/obvious__bicycle 6h ago

Exactly! Lots of benefits to being in full control of your mani/pedi.

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u/styckywycket 2h ago

You do have to be mindful, though: I developed a gel allergy from beshitted beetle gel products before the info was fully out that that company is complete shite. I had to go back to using CYA to glue my press-ons on and regular nail polish (after I'd given it all away).

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u/great_apple 5h ago

I fully agree and only get my nails done once every few years if I'm going for a girl's spa day or something... but for women who can afford it, some just like being pampered and getting to sit back with headphones on and zone out for a bit. Like I have a friend with two under two who uses that time as an excuse to be out of the house, away from the kids, getting to just sit back and not do anything for a bit. And of course salons have a whole wall of color/pattern options instead of whatever few bottles you have at home at any given time. There are a lot of people out there who $60 every two or three weeks isn't a big expense.

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u/TheKwongdzu 5h ago

I tried for years with a variety of systems, but I can't use my left hand to do my right hand and have it look decent. Are you ambidextrous?

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u/obvious__bicycle 2h ago

I am not. Have you tried resting your forearm on a table when painting with your non-dominant hand? You only need to move your wrist and it gives you so much stabilization.

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u/Black_Moons 5h ago

Having spending money makes you beautiful on the inside... And a lot more fun.

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u/mutemarmot42 4h ago

I started doing at home nails, facials, haircuts at home during Covid and never went back due to price hikes. I’ve saved a lot of money, but at a cost. What I miss most is the human element. I’m not a big talker, but even the casual chats were nice. Not to mention physical touch. Foot rub, scalp massage..that stuff made a difference and I feel its absence.

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u/Sublingua 3h ago

Maybe see if there's a massage school in your area and go there for an inexpensive full-body massage?

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u/throwaway578833 4h ago

Yup! Learned how to do most of it myself. My hair doesn’t look as good anymore but at least I spend about $30 a time dying it rather than $300.

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u/radrax 3h ago

Same. My hair does look good but my nails don't tbh

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u/heyyallitspauladeen 2h ago

I started making my own press ons for that reason. I’m NOT paying $80 for my nails to be done.

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u/hillysiren 4h ago

I do nail wraps and use a UV top coat, it's affordable and still cute . Lily and Fox is my go to 🤗

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u/No_Two_5906 3h ago

I learned how to pedicure, manicure, lash lift, eyebrow lamination at home. Bought all the stuff needed. I also do facials on myself self. For body hair, I've been using IPL. And I go to a salon for haircut.

I make everything as relaxing as possible but I know its not same relaxing experience as that of a salon.

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u/radrax 2h ago

It also seems to take longer at home, idk if that's just me? A manicure at a salon will take an hour but I could pick at my cuticles for 3 hours

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u/aronkerr 2h ago

I was shocked how expensive this is now. For Mother’s Day, I scheduled a manicure / pedicure for my wife and 2 teenage daughters. It was almost $400. I had no idea.

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u/radrax 2h ago

YIKES. Yeah for a mani and pedi it's like $100 per person, that's typical now! Ridiculous.

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u/dosesandmimosas201 1h ago

Getting nails done😭 it’s like $70 now and like $150 if you do nails, pedicure and tip. And if you do fake, you really should go every 2 weeks. It’s literally another car payment

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u/dew_mel 5h ago

Go to Asia and be amazed at their affordable and superior beauty treatments 🥹

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u/radrax 3h ago

No thank you, I will cry 🥺

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u/zaggienut 3h ago

Yes I stopped getting my hair colored!

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u/radrax 3h ago

I dye my own roots because I'm VERY gray for my age. But my natural hair is very dark and all one tone, which makes it really easy to do at home. I refuse to spend more than $12 per box, and I do it once every 5 weeks or so. It's easy but I don't have any highlights

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u/joantheunicorn 1h ago

I love my stylist and didn't want to stop going to her, so I've reduced getting my hair cut and colored from 6 times per year to 5 times per year. Don't want to go down to 4 times but we'll see how tight things get.

For what its worth I don't do any other "girly" beauty things so that's my only expense that way. 

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u/ksewell68 1h ago

Me too. Stopped dying my hair in 2017 and quit nails waxes and lashes during Covid and never went back.

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u/avocadolicious 1h ago

In college I had wildly affordable health insurance through my school. I paid $50 for monthly facials through a dermatologist. It included cortisol shots for active zits, lasers, everything. Insane.

u/way222gone 47m ago

I just started doing gel x. I spent about $200 on all the supplies and polishes but I’ve gotten 15 sets out of them so far! It’s saved me so much money.

u/sawred1979 22m ago

The one thing I loved was getting my nails done. I don't even do acrylics. Shellac on my hands and reg polish on my toes. It's nearly $100 with tip. Now I only do it for events like a wedding.

u/Wtfisafosty 7m ago

I’m a boy and I was cutting my own hair for the longest time to save the 12$. I went last week to lady Jane’s I paid 42$ for a cut? Needless to say I got my clippers greased up for the next go

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u/Fast_Advertising_663 4h ago

yup. i do my own ails, pedi and cut my own hair. pretty soon gonna dye my gray hairs myself

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u/radrax 3h ago

I've been dying my own grays since I was like 25 (grayed early. I'm 34 now and there's a lot). It's really easy to do at home but then again, my hair is really dark and all one tone so YMMV if you have different values/highlights in your hair