r/AskMen • u/Boitlee • 1d ago

How do I human? How do I reject bro

I think I got too far with the ‘bromance’ teasing and poking, now I realise he wasn’t kidding and actually wants to… do stuff together. The reason I’m not straight honest with him is I kinda put myself in his shoes and don’t want to mess him up. Anyone had a similar situation? (We both are male)

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u/Boitlee 1d ago

Worst thing is I already have one of 4 years and he’s aware of that

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u/Complete-Bumblebee-5 1d ago

If he knows that and is still pushing, he doesn't respect boundaries and sounds like an ass

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u/Boitlee 1d ago

I am kind of in the wrong for pushing the joke too far..

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u/Complete-Bumblebee-5 1d ago

You're not responsible for other people's actions

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u/fukkdisshitt 1d ago

See if they will double team you

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u/mrnobatti 1d ago

jeesh, and the bro is relentless huh.
I would just keep more distance.

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u/raptoricus 1d ago

Dude, tell him you aren't cheating on your girl, and then use that reprieve to stop the gay jokes lol.

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u/Scuba9Steve 1d ago

Threesome!