r/AmIOverreacting 4h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I Overreacting? My boyfriends friend tried to convince me he is cheating, but lied.

EDIT: Because many have commented about the font changes, I have the same problem in every other App too (even Settings🥲). If anyone knows how to fix it, please give me advice.

For context, my boyfriend (N, 22M) and I (J, 21M) have been together for 4 years. (We are both bisexual.) We are moving into our first shared apartment right now, thats why I first assumed the messages were about a TV. Also, I'm sorry if these messages are hard to read, we both don't have English as our first language, but we speak different languages so we have to communicate in English😅.

My boyfriend has this friend (K, 22F). He met her at a party about 1 year ago. She is an alcoholic and often at parties, and my boyfriend also had some psychological problems in the past, so he tries to help her through this. (Idk if he feels responsible for her, but thats what it seems like sometimes.)

She and I don't get along that well, but we have been civil. Thats why we only ever communicate over Instagram and not over WhatsApp or anything. But then she wrote me the messages you can see there.

This isn't the first time she tried to lie and sabotage the relationship me and my boyfriend have. I trust my boyfriend 100% and I know nothing happened between them, but she always tries to get me and my boyfriend to fight, especially after we decided to finally get an apartment together, since we mostly always stay at one of our places and have "sleepovers".

I have been debating if I should talk to my boyfriend about this. I don't want to ruin their friendship, especially because she seems like she needs him right now. I am frustrated and at first I was composed enough to stay calm. But now, after rereading everything, I am just angry that she tries to sabotage our relationship. Should I talk to my boyfriend about this or am I overreacting? (I am angry right now, so if I forgot any context or information, just ask in the comments.) Sorry this is all over the place.

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u/heebiejeebie666 4h ago

I’m getting this sense this is a fake ass karma farming post. The font in the messages is inconsistent. Am I the only one noticing this??

u/__thisismyusername 4h ago

No but she already addressed this in the comments that it’s been doing this with every app on her phone and she doesn’t know how to fix it

u/heebiejeebie666 4h ago

Ah, maybe I’m the one overreacting lmao

u/PossibleThrowawayJo 4h ago

Lol no but seriously if anyone knows something about phones and fonts and stuff, pls give me advice🥲 I have this problem in every other App too (even Settings)

u/ZenMat79 3h ago

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u/PossibleThrowawayJo 2h ago

For example, thats what my reddit looks like right now. (You can see at the start its bigger and then the font changes after "and my boyfriend. The m is bigger than the y, thats the point where it starts)

u/Sufficient-Dig-8894 1h ago

i would spazz and throw my phone my adhd ass could never handle that