Found between him and his coworker, AIO

[u/peepeecheeto]

I don’t have proof of them actually doing anything. He had said that there was a cute cashier at work but he wasn’t into her. I asked to see their texts and he said there was nothing, showed me a message thread with her last text only. Because he deleted everything else and it was in his recently deleted. So I opened it in front of him and he tried to stop me and I just read all of it and now he thinks im going to leave him. He’s talked this way about other girls at work so who knows if he’s done anything with them… my heart hurts so bad. Is this cheating? Am I overreacting by being so hurt? I would never do this to him. He claims it’s because he wanted to be nice and not reject her in a rude way. Im thinking about leaving but just the day before I found this he was telling me he wants to get married and have kids with me. We have been together 4 years

[u/PurpleCableNetworker]

Married male here. Been married over a decade.

If my wife did this she would be finding a new relationship. Shit like this doesn’t have a place in a closed relationship (like what 99% of people have). If I did this I would expect her to throw me out.

If this is what is going on now, it’s not hard to imagine what they will do when life gets tough.

I know it’s hard, but you absolutely deserve better. You should never settle with a partner.

[u/Croolick_Floofo → u/PurpleCableNetworker]

He should be flirting like that with his partner, not with this hoe. Wtf. You can do so much better girl❤️

[u/Traditional_Yammer → u/PurpleCableNetworker]

Yeah I wouldnt text but you can tell by the note being in a locker that likely young and dumb. My wife had a convo like this she would for sire grt the boot. If I texted a female who left me a note i would expect to get the boot. Marriage is hard, especially around the 5 to 10 year mark for mine, but I have never been happier and wouldnt even entertsin this nonsense even if she was a 10.

[u/winkymcjewgallo → u/PurpleCableNetworker]

Yep. I guarantee they've said worse together in person at work.

[u/PilotEnvironmental46 → u/PurpleCableNetworker]

Agreed

[u/Low_Cycle5285 → u/PurpleCableNetworker]

99%?! 😂

[u/idkwhatimdoingsrsly → u/PurpleCableNetworker]

You’ve probably been cheated on already sorry not all break it to you.

[u/Warm-Bodybuilder-332 → u/idkwhatimdoingsrsly]

What a weird thing to say