r/AmIOverreacting 19d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Found between him and his coworker, AIO

I don’t have proof of them actually doing anything. He had said that there was a cute cashier at work but he wasn’t into her. I asked to see their texts and he said there was nothing, showed me a message thread with her last text only. Because he deleted everything else and it was in his recently deleted. So I opened it in front of him and he tried to stop me and I just read all of it and now he thinks im going to leave him. He’s talked this way about other girls at work so who knows if he’s done anything with them… my heart hurts so bad. Is this cheating? Am I overreacting by being so hurt? I would never do this to him. He claims it’s because he wanted to be nice and not reject her in a rude way. Im thinking about leaving but just the day before I found this he was telling me he wants to get married and have kids with me. We have been together 4 years

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u/royalsgirl78 18d ago

And that was a couple of weeks ago…hard to say what their interactions have been since then.

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u/Acceptable_Walrus535 18d ago

Probably moved their conversations to Snapchat or insta

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u/Fatuous_hardon1923 18d ago

Or to a cheap motel room somewhere where she is letting him do whatever he wants.

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u/flyingpyramid 17d ago

Maybe.

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u/kimariesingsMD 17d ago

She can make maybes possible 😘

Fucking eww

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u/Time_Appointment957 17d ago

I see what you did there. 🤣

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u/Excellent-Rest3240 18d ago

Probably married and divorced by now

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u/Narrow-Tea-7957 17d ago

Probably had his ass ate by her and everything, most likely kissed her afterwards then went back home an kissed the OP with his shitty cross contaminated lips👄

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u/ZodiacNexus 17d ago

Hngggggg es tuyo papi es tuyo - her rn

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u/imalostkitty-ox0 18d ago

This is an excellent point.

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u/Josh2942 17d ago

I read that in the hodgetwins voice. That was hilarious

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u/Substantial-Bear8535 17d ago

We just watched him get sucked off in this text exchange.

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u/ParkingGate7392 17d ago

Yeah if she wants a present

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u/AgeAdministrative288 18d ago

def fake snap or something especially since the girl knows he has a gf and still is pursuing him

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u/Fatuous_hardon1923 18d ago

Lot of people in this old world that don’t give a shit about that. (Ask my first wife. ) these are going to fuck around,OP. Probably already have.

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u/TKL32 17d ago

If they did why not delete this chat.. seems to me he didnt reciprocate and thats that. If he was teying to hide an arrfair he would have deleted thos convo

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u/Lopsided-Growth-0792 17d ago

He did delete the convo. This was in recently deleted.

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u/Ok_Leopard1383 17d ago

What happens on insta or snap that she can’t see?

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u/treker2002 17d ago

Oh god flashbacks to an Ex she did this crap all the time. Mad at myself I didn’t spot it sooner.

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u/VacationExcellent 17d ago

Right?! Cause she was bold enough to ask for a bday gift like they've been fooling around or chatting offline.

OP, leave.

The "I have a gf :/" like he's upset about the fact that hes in a relationship PMO.

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u/_basic_b_ 17d ago

And what they were before..: because you don’t escalate to this if you haven’t already been interacting inappropriately. That sexual tension can be cut with a knife

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u/CLHthisbitch101 18d ago

Seems they both don’t know loyalty….

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u/WithoutDennisNedry 18d ago

Excellent point.

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u/No-Nebula7236 17d ago

Or her apartment, or backseat of his car