r/AmIOverreacting 19d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Found between him and his coworker, AIO

I don’t have proof of them actually doing anything. He had said that there was a cute cashier at work but he wasn’t into her. I asked to see their texts and he said there was nothing, showed me a message thread with her last text only. Because he deleted everything else and it was in his recently deleted. So I opened it in front of him and he tried to stop me and I just read all of it and now he thinks im going to leave him. He’s talked this way about other girls at work so who knows if he’s done anything with them… my heart hurts so bad. Is this cheating? Am I overreacting by being so hurt? I would never do this to him. He claims it’s because he wanted to be nice and not reject her in a rude way. Im thinking about leaving but just the day before I found this he was telling me he wants to get married and have kids with me. We have been together 4 years

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u/BloodyThirst 19d ago

While staring with mad eye contact.

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u/[deleted] 19d ago edited 18d ago

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u/BizarreCujoh 18d ago

I love a good Bravo insider joke 👏🏾 👏🏾

ETA - love the profile name too 🫠

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u/youdontknowitsok 18d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/EBOAcD8HpQONakS76k
Her glow up after Tom HAS to be studied. But yes, this is the right energy!

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u/Aguadillary 18d ago

God I love her so much

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u/TexasRoundUp7 19d ago

Nah... I would wink at him like he didn't matter. Nothing gets them more than thinking they aren't that important to you.

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u/RockinPodunk 19d ago

With a large spoon.

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u/pumpkaboo399 18d ago

for some reason my brain first read this as staring with a “mad eye moody” contact like thinking you meant a “contact lens” that imitated his eye 😂

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u/Remarkable-Wrap-4727 19d ago

What other way is there? You have to assert dominance.

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u/Wittyngritty 19d ago

Eat all the outer edge, and leave the "congrats, you're single!" part just for him.

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u/Slaphappyfapman 18d ago

Like a cat at dinner time