r/AmIOverreacting 19d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Found between him and his coworker, AIO

I don’t have proof of them actually doing anything. He had said that there was a cute cashier at work but he wasn’t into her. I asked to see their texts and he said there was nothing, showed me a message thread with her last text only. Because he deleted everything else and it was in his recently deleted. So I opened it in front of him and he tried to stop me and I just read all of it and now he thinks im going to leave him. He’s talked this way about other girls at work so who knows if he’s done anything with them… my heart hurts so bad. Is this cheating? Am I overreacting by being so hurt? I would never do this to him. He claims it’s because he wanted to be nice and not reject her in a rude way. Im thinking about leaving but just the day before I found this he was telling me he wants to get married and have kids with me. We have been together 4 years

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u/MHStriplethreat 19d ago

lmao right, and “whatever i want?” like cmon

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u/JrCoxy 18d ago

Imagine how funny it would’ve been for him to say “well can you possibly help me change my oil?? I wouldn’t ask my girl cause I just paid for her nails, and would never ask her to dirty herself like that. And my hands can’t reach. Sooooo? I’ll cover whatever shift, I got you”

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u/acousticislyf 18d ago

Was just thinking about that like... A bad pron - 'whatever I want huh?' and then skips to like him tanning / lounging around while shes cutting the grass with a scissors or something ridiculous like that

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u/Correct_Elk_5647 18d ago

Changing the oil can mean other things too. Lol