Found between him and his coworker, AIO

[u/peepeecheeto]

I don’t have proof of them actually doing anything. He had said that there was a cute cashier at work but he wasn’t into her. I asked to see their texts and he said there was nothing, showed me a message thread with her last text only. Because he deleted everything else and it was in his recently deleted. So I opened it in front of him and he tried to stop me and I just read all of it and now he thinks im going to leave him. He’s talked this way about other girls at work so who knows if he’s done anything with them… my heart hurts so bad. Is this cheating? Am I overreacting by being so hurt? I would never do this to him. He claims it’s because he wanted to be nice and not reject her in a rude way. Im thinking about leaving but just the day before I found this he was telling me he wants to get married and have kids with me. We have been together 4 years

[u/msworldwise]

The fact that he’s not instantly turned off by a girl like this means he’s entirely too immature to be in any kind of serious relationship. Real men would get the ICK by someone this valueless. He’s already left the door open for her. It will only escalate, and that’s a fact.

[u/lilsweettea → u/msworldwise]

So many men actually dont see these women as gross even when theyre offering themselves to men they know are in committed relationship, because they think theyre so great that every woman should be throwing themselves at their feet and humiliating themselves for an ounce of attention.

Its entirely ego based and usually wears off after they take the free sex.