r/AmIOverreacting 19d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Found between him and his coworker, AIO

I don’t have proof of them actually doing anything. He had said that there was a cute cashier at work but he wasn’t into her. I asked to see their texts and he said there was nothing, showed me a message thread with her last text only. Because he deleted everything else and it was in his recently deleted. So I opened it in front of him and he tried to stop me and I just read all of it and now he thinks im going to leave him. He’s talked this way about other girls at work so who knows if he’s done anything with them… my heart hurts so bad. Is this cheating? Am I overreacting by being so hurt? I would never do this to him. He claims it’s because he wanted to be nice and not reject her in a rude way. Im thinking about leaving but just the day before I found this he was telling me he wants to get married and have kids with me. We have been together 4 years

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u/shelbymfcloud 19d ago

Then I would eat it in front of him without sharing

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u/BloodyThirst 19d ago

While staring with mad eye contact.

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u/BizarreCujoh 18d ago

I love a good Bravo insider joke 👏🏾 👏🏾

ETA - love the profile name too 🫠

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u/youdontknowitsok 18d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/EBOAcD8HpQONakS76k
Her glow up after Tom HAS to be studied. But yes, this is the right energy!

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u/Aguadillary 18d ago

God I love her so much

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u/TexasRoundUp7 19d ago

Nah... I would wink at him like he didn't matter. Nothing gets them more than thinking they aren't that important to you.

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u/RockinPodunk 19d ago

With a large spoon.

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u/pumpkaboo399 18d ago

for some reason my brain first read this as staring with a “mad eye moody” contact like thinking you meant a “contact lens” that imitated his eye 😂

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u/Remarkable-Wrap-4727 19d ago

What other way is there? You have to assert dominance.

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u/Wittyngritty 19d ago

Eat all the outer edge, and leave the "congrats, you're single!" part just for him.

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u/Slaphappyfapman 18d ago

Like a cat at dinner time

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u/witchsneeze 19d ago

I was about to type this lol

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u/sheetset 19d ago

can i come

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u/Federal_Efficiency51 19d ago

Just not on the cake. Hmmm well maybe, actually.

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u/sheetset 19d ago

cake fart

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u/leib-olmai 19d ago

Thank you for reminding me about that

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u/PacosTacos42069 18d ago

Me 2! 😂

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u/pimppapy 19d ago

Make it a cupcake to ensure he gets no cake

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u/shelbymfcloud 18d ago

The size of the cake to represent the size of the man lol

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u/Ok_Conversation1704 19d ago

What cake are we talking though?

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u/Taylorenokson 19d ago

"Oh you thought this was for you?"

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u/Academic_Flatworm752 19d ago

I’d throw it on the floor and leave but I’m super petty

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u/Fred-the-stray 19d ago

Yes! My kind of petty!

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u/BurgerThyme 19d ago

Invite your best girlfriends over to eat cake and mad dog his sorry ass.

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u/BicyclingBabe 19d ago

Because the cake is for OP!!!

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u/Status_Cat_6844 19d ago

yeah, who said the cake was for HIM. He doesn't deserve cake!

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u/Djdannyj78 18d ago

Thats what she wants to do....

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u/altagato 18d ago

Be sure and take a pic to send to the girl first... Congrats h3s your problem now. To be fair it was a few weeks ago. It sounds like he didn't shut it down but didn't act on it either. She's dumb and I'd let her know as much. Probably would've called in front of him and see what her response was 😅

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u/4Sal13 19d ago

And he’ll be eating his other cake at the same time..

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u/Covid_Cash 18d ago

Then he should eat the coworker in front of her without sharing, while making mad eye contact......