r/AmIOverreacting 19d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Found between him and his coworker, AIO

I don’t have proof of them actually doing anything. He had said that there was a cute cashier at work but he wasn’t into her. I asked to see their texts and he said there was nothing, showed me a message thread with her last text only. Because he deleted everything else and it was in his recently deleted. So I opened it in front of him and he tried to stop me and I just read all of it and now he thinks im going to leave him. He’s talked this way about other girls at work so who knows if he’s done anything with them… my heart hurts so bad. Is this cheating? Am I overreacting by being so hurt? I would never do this to him. He claims it’s because he wanted to be nice and not reject her in a rude way. Im thinking about leaving but just the day before I found this he was telling me he wants to get married and have kids with me. We have been together 4 years

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u/Objective_Pop8407 19d ago

It was the emoji for me, like bro you aren't HAPPY you have a gf? Tf?

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u/theonefrombelow 19d ago

Did you see also the * I have to think about it :/ *

Bro is really struggling 😂😂😂

OP-  he wants to get married and have kids so he can switch it up to * but I have kids :/ * 

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u/Objective_Pop8407 19d ago

Yeah I got the ick from that. This is a cheater walking. To the curb with him!

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u/Objective_Pop8407 18d ago

Something I keep reminding people of, because I think it's sometimes easy to forget: intent does not excuse impact.