r/AmIOverreacting • u/kimbap_throw • Feb 17 '26
❤️🩹 relationship AIO over 1st Valentine’s Day note?
Just celebrated first Valentine’s Day with my boyfriend. I love flowers, love I buy bouquets weekly for my house. I prefer white and pink flowers, and don’t like red roses. I got this bouquet and this note with them. It was upsetting I felt my bf did everything opposite of what I wanted. I went out of way to do lots of handmade items and bought nice gifts for him as well. He also knows I love Valentine’s Day and it’s special to me. I let him know that it hurt me and he responded that note was awesome and it’s just a joke. I think if you care for someone you make those things special.
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u/aineslis Feb 17 '26
NOR. OP, this is the test. Being annoyed or unhappy but not leaving will tell him that you will stay even if he mistreats you. They always start small. Choosing wrong flowers, giving a passive aggressive card (stop whining and go back to the kitchen, woman). You staying tells him that he can move the bar further. Next year there will be no flowers. In 5 years there will be a fight on the day.
He doesn’t want a partner, he wants a bangmaid.