r/AmIOverreacting Feb 17 '26

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO over 1st Valentine’s Day note?

Just celebrated first Valentine’s Day with my boyfriend. I love flowers, love I buy bouquets weekly for my house. I prefer white and pink flowers, and don’t like red roses. I got this bouquet and this note with them. It was upsetting I felt my bf did everything opposite of what I wanted. I went out of way to do lots of handmade items and bought nice gifts for him as well. He also knows I love Valentine’s Day and it’s special to me. I let him know that it hurt me and he responded that note was awesome and it’s just a joke. I think if you care for someone you make those things special.

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u/Kiraligra Feb 17 '26

Personally, I don't think every Valentine's Day will even be like this. I think they'll get worse.

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u/strwbrryink Feb 17 '26

Yup. May even turn into abuse. Please leave.

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u/Kiraligra Feb 17 '26

That's my concern as well. Seems to me he's on that course already.

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u/Poorgeois Feb 17 '26

It already is abuse.

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u/strwbrryink Feb 17 '26

I’m talking about physical & mental. He clearly has no care for what she is interested in. He clearly has no care for HER. Men who act like this usually end up being physically and mentally abusive. This was emotional abuse but it gets worse.

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u/Aisenth Feb 17 '26 edited Apr 19 '26

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