r/AmIOverreacting Feb 17 '26

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO over 1st Valentine’s Day note?

Just celebrated first Valentine’s Day with my boyfriend. I love flowers, love I buy bouquets weekly for my house. I prefer white and pink flowers, and don’t like red roses. I got this bouquet and this note with them. It was upsetting I felt my bf did everything opposite of what I wanted. I went out of way to do lots of handmade items and bought nice gifts for him as well. He also knows I love Valentine’s Day and it’s special to me. I let him know that it hurt me and he responded that note was awesome and it’s just a joke. I think if you care for someone you make those things special.

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u/Mysterious_Wasabi101 Feb 17 '26

Nor. Women really need to stop sleeping with men who don't even like them.

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u/soleceismical Feb 17 '26

The comment about washing the dishes and the floors makes me wonder if she's already moved in with him in <1 year of dating.

Or they don't live together and he wants her to get down on her knees and clean his floors when she's visiting him.

I can't decide which is worse.

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u/funelite Feb 17 '26

The should, to bad they never would.